On October 5th this year, my parent's will be celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary. They have been together for 25 whole years, and I find that absolutely amazing. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it seems kind of scary to even think about getting married. I want to end up with someone who will love me unconditionally for the rest of my life, not someone who will leave at the first sign of trouble. But then I take a look at my parents and I am not so scared anymore, because their relationship radiates love and is a perfect example of what real love is. It has shown me that it is possible to have a marriage that lasts, and I am so lucky and happy to be able to call them my parents.

My parents marriage sets the standard for the guy that I want to end up with one day. After my dad took my mom on their first date, he sent flowers to her. I am not saying I expect flowers, but I do expect to meet a man as kind and caring as my dad is. I can see that he really does make my mom as happy as she makes him. Not only does their marriage set standards for the guy I want to end up with one day, but it also has an influence on friendships in my life. I can see they have a strong friendship, and how they treat each other shows me how I should treat other people and how other people should treat me. They have set an example of what a true friendship is, so when I look for friends I know what good and bad qualities to look out for.

There are many characteristics my parent's marriage possesses that I look up to. They support each other, joke around, compromise, and sacrifice. Not in my twenty years of life have I seen my parents fight. If they disagree on something, they talk it through without yelling or getting unreasonably upset. I have never seen either of them hurt each other in any way. They also have a strong relationship with God, which is something that I believe should play a huge role in marriage. Keeping God in their life creates a stronger foundation for their marriage and helps build a life of happiness and love. They completely resemble the sacrament of Marriage, and everyday I can see them living their lives as Jesus would.

So congratulations Mom and Dad on 25 years. Words can never express how thankful I am that Catherine and I are able to have you guys as our parents. I am truly blessed to have two wonderful role models to look up to and I love you guys so very much.