While writing is a beautiful art of self-expression, there is always a risk of persecution for anyone who distributes their medium to the general public. More so than other art forms, writing especially receives the bulk of the blow because it's far more direct in nature.
A little while ago, I wrote an article regarding the silence surrounding sexual assault in Southeast Asian communities. Initially, I was a bit weary about coming forward with that piece, but the lack of conversation around an issue that affects 1 in every 3 women should not be ignored. By choosing to stay quiet, I saw myself as no better than those that completely dismissed it as an issue. Standing in the shadow over something I feel so strongly about was not an option. It was my most popular article, with the most shares and views, but it was also the most controversial in terms of feedback. Now, I'm very much appreciative and amazed that my family and close friends make up the base of my audience, but choosing to read my articles exposes yourself to my opinion and my side of the story. It is very hard to remove bias on pieces so personal, so readily disputed. Despite the repercussions, I will continue to write by my own principles.
Throughout this walk of life, the more you put yourself out in the world, you will increasingly face the risk of being judged by others. Two or three years ago, I would have never publicly talked about something so personal, but it's the personal stuff that matters most. When something is personal, it becomes real and that writing is far more powerful. I am proud of my articles like those. They speak to my character and make me feel as though I've left a mark on the world. Despite what my friends and family will day or do or think of me, I will stay true to me. Because at the end of the day, you have to ask yourself, what is it that you stand for? What are you willing to give up everything for? If you aren't rooted in anything so devotedly, you can be easily swayed by the world around you, often leaving you unhappy. Find what's worth fighting for and make that your center. As 2017 begins, I will continue to do so, even more than before and I urge everyone else to do the same. And as a side note, if anyone has any questions or concerns regarding any of my writings, my contact information is readily available to the public via Facebook, but I'll put it here as well:
Email- rchanderdatt@gmail.com
Cell- 347-804-5956
Also here's a picture of succulents that I thought was super cute. Ta-da!
But also, subs to the people with negative comments, I have a lovely gif:
