I'm sure we've all heard the saying, "Happiness is a state of mind" and truly, it is. It's a state of mind that we crave, that we live in the moment for, that we want to experience all the time.
Unfortunately, life isn't always happy. Life has pain and suffering; it has sadness and loss; it has anger and guilt; it has every emotion that we as humans can ever feel. Happiness may be a state of mind, but it's not the one and only state of emotion (as much as we may wish that were the case).
Happiness is easier to achieve for some people than others, and mental health often plays a big role in how much and how often some of us can be happy. But that doesn't mean we can't all experience happiness.
They say it's the little things that make us happy, that make us feel better. And truly, it is. It's the moments where we don't worry about a thing, except for the joy that is being filled within us.
So here are two hundred reasons to be happy, based on the little things that have made me happy in my life, and hopefully, yours too.
1. Basking in the sunshine, feeling its warmth on your skin
2. Wandering to a new place you've always wanted to go to
3. Being told that you are important
4. Being complimented on something other than appearance
5. Being complimented on your achievements
6. Seeing someone you've missed
7. Curling up under warm sheets or a warm blanket when you're cold
8. Eating your favorite food
9. Going to a concert of one of your favorite bands
10. Being told that you are loved
11. Waking up and actually feeling refreshed
12. Recieving a surprise gift
13. Receiving a surprise visit from someone you care about
14. Sipping on a perfect cup of coffee
15. Sipping on a perfect cup of tea
16. Going out somewhere fun with friends
17. Getting a new haircut
18. Making yourself a homemade meal
19. Watching a sunset
20. Watching a sunrise
21. Watching a funny video
22. Looking at a funny picture
23. Trying something new and loving it
24. Going to the mountains
25. Going to the lake
26. Going to the beach
27. Going to the movie theater to see a movie you really want to see
28. Laughing with friends
29. Laughing with family
30. Laughing at yourself for something you did
31. The smell of a storm approaching
32. Falling asleep to the sound of rain
33. Foggy mornings where the world seems so mysterious yet calming
34. Remembering to wear a jacket when it rains
35. Holding a warm cup in your hands when you're cold
36. Watching the first snow of the season
37. Making snowmen or having snowball fights
38. Tickling someone
39. Being tickled
40. Holding someone in a warm, comfortable embrace
41. Seeing someone smile because of something you said or did
42. Kissing someone you love
43. Cuddling up with someone
44. Cuddling up with a pet
45. Seeing how happy your pet is to see you after you've been gone
46. Getting out of your comfort zone and it turning out just fine
47. Hearing your favorite song start playing
48. Listening to music loud and proud
49. Rolling down the windows in the summertime
50. Walking barefoot through the grass
51. Cande-lit baths
52. A warm, refreshing shower after being cold
53. Finishing something you've been working hard on
54. Being told you've made someone proud
55. Looking in the mirror and feeling confident
56. Being confident in yourself in any situation
57. Wearing an outfit you love
58. Showing someone new music and they really enjoy it
59. Cruising down back roads
60. Cruising at night when the rest of the world is asleep
61. Watching the stars
62. Camping
63. Taking in a breath of fresh air
64. The smell of delicious food cooking
65. Holding someone's hand
66. Going shopping and enjoying it
67. The feeling after a good stretch
68. Eating a guilty pleasure food
69. Kisses on the cheek
70. Seeing a shooting star (and making a wish)
71. Being told that you matter
72. Dancing by yourself and loving every moment (no matter how ridiculous your moves may be)
73. Dancing with friends
74. Learning something new (a skill, cool information, etc.)
75. Reading a good book
76. Watching a good movie
77. Going out to a restaurant to eat
78. Late night fast food runs with friends
79. Hearing a perfect song that describes exactly how you feel
80. Compliments from a stranger
81. Jumping into the pool, lake, or ocean
82. Holding someone in your arms
83. Someone holding you in their arms
84. Becoming more fit
85. Noticing your progress on something
86. When your hair grows out
87. Buying someone a gift
88. Being able to let go of something that has bothered you for a long time
89. Gazing at art
90. Visiting museums
91. The feeling of flying in a plane, knowing you're on the way to your destination
92. Knowing you're about to go on an adventure
93. Reconnecting with loved ones
94. Bonfires
95. Fires in a fireplace
96. Homemade meals
97. Waking up to the smell of breakfast cooking
98. A fresh shave
99. Fireworks
100. Falling in love
101. Being okay with your past
102. Someone accepting you for who you are
103. Accepting someone for who they are
104. Eating out at some place new
105. Falling asleep with someone you love
106. Waking up with someone you love
107. Making art
108. Sex with someone you love
109. Having a day off from work or school
110. Getting recognition for something you did
111. Feeling at peace with yourself
112. Feeling at peace with what is around you
113. The sound of calming music
114. Relaxing in silence
115. Going to a coffee shop
116. Smelling fresh flowers
117. The refreshing smell of the forest
118. The refreshing smell of the ocean
119. Discovering something or some place new
120. Meeting new friends
121. Being able to dress up for something
122. Girls night
123. Boys night
124. Singing aloud to a song you love and not caring if your voice isn't great
125. Rapping lyrics to a song perfectly
126. Gazing at the moon
127. Taking a walk by yourself
128. Getting into a warm car when it's cold outside
129. Getting into a warm room when you're cold
130. Going out on a date
131. Late nights with friends
132. Having a good high
133. Having a good (and safe) time drunk
134. Falling asleep early
135. Writing a story
136. Writing poetry
137. When someone does a favor for you
138. When someone goes out of their way to do something for you
139. When someone tells you to text or call when you get home to make sure you're safe
140. Realizing you have more money than you thought
141. Getting a paycheck
142. Getting a good grade
143. Having a class with a friend
144. Having good coworkers/classmates
145. Having a good hair day
146. Feeling safe
147. Feeling secure
148. When someone you wanted to win wins
149. The sound of crickets at night
150. The sound of trees rustling at night
151. The sound of waves at night
152. Sleeping with your window open
153. Cleaning your glasses so your vision isn't dirty/fogged/scratched up
154. Putting on glasses and actually being able to see the world (and how wonderful it is)
155. Putting on nice perfume or cologne
156. Winning at something
157. Putting on lotion when you feel dry
158. Putting on chapstick when your lips are chapped
159. Feeling proud of someone or something that matters a lot to you
160. Telling a joke that people think is funny
161. Surprise hugs
162. Surprise kisses
163. Looking into someone's eyes and seeing how much they love you
164. Morning sex
165. Listening to vinyl records
166. Listening to jazz (especially at night or in the fall and winter)
167. Having sight to see the world around us
168. Being able to hear the world around us
169. Day trips somewhere
170. Seeing family after a long time
171. Doing well on something you thought you wouldn't
172. Achieving a goal of yours
173. Restocking the food in your home
174. Buying new clothes
175. Buying new shoes
176. Buying new underwear (or lingerie or bras for ladies)
177. Wearing comfortable clothes
178. Wearing comfortable shoes
179. Having something of yours fully charged
180. Helping someone understand your point of view
181. Being cold on a warm day
182. Not having acne
183. Not being sick anymore
184. Stuffing your belly on good food but not caring about how full you are
185. Getting accepted into something
186. Standing on top of a mountain and seeing everything around you
187. Finishing everything you needed to in one day and finally being able to relax
188. Treating yourself to something you've wanted for a long time
189. Being able to talk to someone to get something off your chest
190. Spending fun time with family
191. Getting second helpings of food
192. Going to someone for advice and being thankful that you did
193. Getting a handwritten letter
194. Looking back on good memories
195. Looking through nostalgic phtographs
196. Saving money for something important to you
197. The smell after it rains
198. Waking up before your alarm and realizing you still have time to sleep
199. Laughing so hard your belly hurts
200. Knowing how loved and cared for you are
The list could go on and on and on. But the real question is, what are the countless things that make you happy?