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Five Unfortunate Reasons Why Girls Don't Like You

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Five Unfortunate Reasons Why Girls Don't Like You

I have come to realize that I will never truly understand the female brain. However, through trials and tribulations, I have learned some things about women that can help guys everywhere. I have discovered five unfortunate, yet incredibly true reasons why girls don't like a guy, and here they are:

1. You're unattractive.

Whether it's your body type, your height, your face, or whatever, a girl just may not find your physique attractive at all. Okay, Chris, but what if I go to the gym and improve myself enough to make myself more attractive? Sure, go for it! Get in the best shape of your life! But, if you're going to "improve upon yourself," make sure these are actual changes that you want to see in yourself because not every girl likes a gym rat ... you really just can't win them all.

2. You have a horrible lifestyle.

You probably play video games too much, you binge on Netflix way too often and you probably drink until you pass out multiple days of the week. Girls want to be part of a life that is actually somewhat exciting to them and it starts with you. Do something that can change your life for the better or else you may end up alone.

3. You're the "nice guy."

I never believe any girl that says they go for the "nice guy" because it simply isn't true. Nice guys are easily taken advantage of, they lack confidence and they give girls way too much attention. Translation? Nice guys are BORING. I now understand why girls don't usually go for the "nice guy." Girls want to turn that so called "bad boy" persona into a "nice guy." Why? Because girls like a challenge and it's in a girl's nature to nurture someone. The solution? Stop being the "nice guy!" Being a "nice guy" is not a bad thing, but it can hurt you sometimes. At the same time, don't be a complete douche either. It's about finding the perfect balance between the two.

4. You have a poor attitude.

This even goes past the realm of why girls don't like you. To be honest, having a negative attitude sucks and I will admit that I sometimes fall under this category. Negative attitudes are the worst thing, especially around girls. Correct me if I am wrong, but I am pretty sure a girl wants to be with someone that will bring her spirits up, not down! Turn that negativity into positivity, and you'll see a big change!

5. You care about girls way too much.

This sounds a little counter-intuitive, but allow me to explain. Showing a girl you care too much makes that girl feel responsible for not only her, but for you as well. A girl wants a guy that doesn't allow little things to affect his life on a day-to-day basis. So, what do you have to do? Be yourself. Don't change yourself to get a girl to like you, because it will bite you in the ass in the end. I truly believe there is someone special out there for everyone. Don't do random things you don't like just to get a girl to like you; eventually you'll realize down the road that what you are doing is stupid.

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