As a girly tomboy, it can be tough to defy the 'feminine' stereotype and act in a way seen as contrary to how society believes I should act. Throughout the years, though, I've learned to grow a tough skin by learning how to deal with the struggles of being a girly tomboy.
1. Your sense of style changes on a daily basis
One day you might be wearing booties with leggings and a shirt and perfect makeup, and the next you might be wearing a baggy sweater, leggings, and a beanie. These sudden changes can leave people shocked sometimes when they see you dressed up.
2. You do enjoy dressing up
Since it doesn’t present itself often, dressing up for special occasions can be a great time to play up my girly side, but then I revert back to sweatpants the next day.
3. You don’t wear makeup every day
And when you do have to put on foundation, it can be a struggle. I go most days without wearing a full face of makeup because I think it takes too much time and effort.
4. You prefer practical over fashionable
Sure you have a few pieces to whip out if need be, whether you’re going to a conference or to an interview. Yet, most of your closet consists of practical clothes because you’d rather be comfortable than worrying about your clothes all the time.
5. You aren’t the biggest fan of nail polish
Since I hate when my nail polish chips, I tend to only do my nails when I really feel like devoting the time and effort.
6. You have more guy friends than female friends
This might be hard for some people to understand, but you just prefer hanging out with your guy friends. You do still cherish your time with your female friends, but there’s a difference in how you relate to each other.
7. People often think it’s a phase
Those who think you should act more feminine think this is a ‘phase’ and that you’ll grow out of it soon enough. However, this is who you are and that’s what makes you happy.
8. Short skirts and dresses make you feel uncomfortable
These are your worst nightmare and you hate it when someone suggests you wear a short(er) article of clothing. Again, practicality over fashion wins here: you’d rather be comfortable than trying to hold down your clothes against the wind.
9. You don’t wear makeup to the gym
Unlike those who get dolled up to go to the gym, as a girly tomboy, you can’t imagine doing your makeup and then sweating it all off. What’s worse is, it’s not good for your skin!
10. You don’t pretend to be someone you’re not
Even though some people may not understand your disposition, you’re not trying to impress anyone and you remain true yourself.
