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11 Things People Constantly Tell You When You Have RBF

No, I'm not mad at you. This is just my face.

Alyssa Bicchetti

May 30, 2017

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11 Things People Constantly Tell You When You Have RBF

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Having RBF or resting bitch face is both a blessing and a curse. If we are actually mad at somebody they will get the hint, but a lot of people who don't know us will think we are just rude people. Here are a couple things people who suffer from RBF are told on a daily basis.

1. "What's wrong?"

You know, because RBF makes it seem like we're totally pissed off all the time. So something must've happened to us and upset us. Sorry, but this is just my face.

2. "Are you OK?"

It always seems that we are bothered by something, which leads people to keep asking questions. Answering "I'm fine" can result in the person asking five more times just to be sure that you are OK. Ugh. Yes, I'm fine this is just my face.

3. "You should smile more often."

Says mom, a patron at work, or the guy at the club. Smiling isn't something that we don't do, we smile a lot again this is just my normal face.

4."You look so much prettier when you smile."

Thank you for that, but again I'm not going to smile for a random reason. I'm sorry that my normal face isn't good enough for you

5. "Smile."

Are you going to take my picture, or did you just say something amusing? Because if not then I'm sorry but no.

6. "When I first met you, I was really intimidated by you but then I got to know you."

Yes, we understand that RBF makes us look like mean people, and thank you for giving us a chance and looking past our RBF because yes we are really nice when you get to know us.

7. "I thought you hated me when we first met."

Oh no, I'm so sorry, I actually thought you were really nice that's just my face.

8. "Are you tired? You look tired."

Nope, I'm actually pretty awake right now. Again, this is just was my face looks like.

9. "You know guys are afraid to approach you because you look unfriendly."

That makes me feel really great about myself, so thank you. This is just my face I can't control it. I'm sorry that I don't smile all the time. It's just the way my face is.

10. "What's wrong?"

Yes, this was listed before but it comes up so often it should be listed twice.

11. "Why do you look like this all the time?"

Because, THIS IS JUST THE WAY MY FACE IS!

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11 Things People Constantly Tell You When You Have RBF

No, I'm not mad at you. This is just my face.

1. "What's wrong?"

2. "Are you OK?"

3. "You should smile more often."

4."You look so much prettier when you smile."

5. "Smile."

6. "When I first met you, I was really intimidated by you but then I got to know you."

7. "I thought you hated me when we first met."

8. "Are you tired? You look tired."

9. "You know guys are afraid to approach you because you look unfriendly."

10. "What's wrong?"

11. "Why do you look like this all the time?"

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1. Communicating via email can be awkward.

2. Appointments usually accompany weird looks.

3. Introducing yourself to someone is never without a hitch.

4. You’ve probably thought about changing your name.

5. You’re often asked why you have the name you do.

6. You get excited when you meet someone of your gender with your name.

7. You feel awkward when you meet someone of the opposite gender with your name.

8. You’ve had someone say to you, “I knew a [your name], but they were [your opposite gender].”

9. You’ve heard a bad joke/pick-up line or two about your name before.

10. People are surprised when they see you.

11. You’re extra sensitive to other unique or unisex names.

12. You’ve fought with your parents about it.

13. All things considered, you’re happy your name makes you unique.

You know that all of these things apply to you. You'll just never tell.

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1. At least I can't lose you in a crowd!

2. Oh my goodness your skin is like glow-in-the-dark.

3. Can't you just get fake tan?

4. Do you tan or just burn?

5. Your kids are going to look like Casper the Friendly Ghost!

6. *holds arm against your arm* Look how much darker I am compared to you!

7. *holds pale arm against another pale arm* Aw, at least you're darker than her!

8. I laid out by the pool almost every day over break!

9. I haven't used sunscreen since I was, like, five.

10. *adjusts selfie lighting to their face* Oops, where'd you go??

11. *after working out* Your face is SO red!

12. *wears white* Look! You're all one color!

13. You need to get some sun.

14. Aren't you excited for summer?

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5. When there's a paper due the next day, but you have to attend yet another concert in order to pass a 0 credit class:

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7. Knowing that there's always that one professor during juries:

8. The oh-so-attractive band/choir uniforms:

9. Realizing that a college campus is maybe not the best atmosphere to finish your latest composition:

10. Hearing "Oh, you sing opera? I LOVE Phantom of the Opera!" for the hundredth time:

11. When people think finals week is a breeze for you.

12. When you're drowning in the stress that comes with 18+ credits (and not to mention all those 0 credit classes) and people ask you how you are:

13. When it all comes down to it, though, you know that at the end of the day, music is your passion:

Because you need it in your life.

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6. holds arm against your arm Look how much darker I am compared to you!

7. holds pale arm against another pale arm Aw, at least you're darker than her!

10. adjusts selfie lighting to their face Oops, where'd you go??

11. after working out Your face is SO red!

12. wears white Look! You're all one color!