Within my three years studying psychology at Mississippi State University, I have discovered an undying affection for the study of relationships and sex. So, I thought I would share some of my favorite psychology facts, theories, and phenomena regarding my favorite topic.
Four psychological facts, theories, and phenomena regarding intimate relationships:
1. Dates that get the heart pumping, will probably make your date like you more.
Pay attention if you are planning a date anytime soon, this comes in handy. Misattribution Of Arousal is the idea that people tend to mistake the source of their arousal. So, let's say you go on a date to an amusement park. It is possible that the fear or excitement felt on those crazy roller coaster rides will actually get your partner to like you more. Your date could mistake that excitement felt on the roller coaster for excitement felt because, oh my gosh, my date is just so awesome it is making my heart flutter. Cool, right?
2. Frequent sex has been associated with better health.
So, most people know that sex burns calories, but did you know that increased sexual activity has actually be linked to better functionality within the brain? Frequent sex has also been credited with improved psychological health as well. It has even been suggested that an orgasm is the perfect cure for many physiological problems, such as headaches. So.. ya know... bowchickawowwow.
3. Is it me, or do they keep getting prettier?
The Mere Exposure effect is a psychological phenomenon suggesting the more you see someone, the more you'll like them, or the more they'll like you, whichever way you prefer. People tend to like things they know, so the more someone is exposed to another person, the more likely they are to end up liking them. This works with attraction too. The more you see someone, the more attractive they become to you, or the more attractive you become to them. If you have a crush on someone in your class, sit next to them in class and go to class everyday. (If you are in college I apologize for writing the statement you have heard 5000 times).
4. Red is sexy.
In a plethora of research studies, it has been found that straight men report being more attracted to a women in red. There's many different explanations floating around regarding this theory. Some have suggested that is an evolutionary development, others believe men have simply been programmed to believe that red is sexy. Either way, ladies (or men) , if you have a man you are trying to impress, I suggest rocking that red lipstick, dress, or shoes.
Science can be fun, if you know how to use it. This has been a PSA from your friendly, neighborhood psychology nerd. Have fun, you crazy kids.
