Contrary to popular belief, not every women possess that “motherly instinct” from the start. Now before I go any further, this isn’t a hate crime against children by any means, rather just a public service announcement about controlling your children in a public setting.

I don’t hate children, really, I don’t. They come into this world pure and intact 'til those toddler years, and then the messiness starts to occur. I have about 10 children I love to be around, eight of them are family if that gives you any insight. I’m a young adult who is pursuing a career and an education. Why should I be focusing on children, anyways?

Seeing I work and am in plenty of family-friendly areas, I get to observe children daily, the good, bad and ugly. I’ve seen it all – and that’s just in the work place. Now, if there is one thing that aggravates me the most it’s, when children become disrespectful and out of hand. However, I understand this is not THEIR FAULT. I don’t know what it’s like to be a parent, and from the looks and sound of it, it’s hard and never ending. But I know there is a line drawn of being respectful with kids, and not being.

Starting off with personal space, I can’t even tell you how many times a parent would let their kids run up to be, around me, and get in my way when I’m trying to do something. I’m not their babysitter, most of the time I’m just trying to do my job. Please respect my personal space as I would yours and your children. This motive is not to be confused when a family or child needs help – that is a completely different scenario.

Next, children are messy, that’s obvious. But please don’t let them destroy places without at least an EFFORT to clean it up. Whether it’s a restaurant or someone’s personal home be respectful of people’s things and places. Messes happen and mistakes can be made but at least put an effort to help resolve what has been done.

Finally, the respect factor: If you have a screaming child in a public place, there are designated areas for you to take your children to get it resolved. This is notable for places such as theaters, shopping areas, and meetings of any kind. Don’t put your child or others through the pain that both parties are experiencing.

I’m sure there is a saying out there that says something like, “Parents have the hardest, most rewarding job in the world,” and while I fully understand that, just be respectful in the process. God bless those who become parents and take on the responsibility of a mini them. I will admire from a distance, but please be mindful of my space while I am yours.

Happy parenting!