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Pros And Cons Of Being The Oldest Child

Always sitting at the kid's table isn't so bad after all

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Pros And Cons Of Being The Oldest Child
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Being the oldest child definitely has it’s ups and downs. You never have to experience hand-me-downs, but you always have to be the most mature sibling -- even when you're only five years old. If you're the oldest child, you know the following to be true:

Pro #1: Seniority.

Duh. You're basically the boss. At least until your siblings get old enough to catch onto your ways and start using them against you.

Con #1: Being the overprotected child.

So the seniority is great, but it comes at a cost. You're your mom's first child, and, rightfully, everything is perceived as danger. You had strict schedules and curfews, had to constantly make your whereabouts known to your parentals and basically lived in a bubble. The second child will have to occasionally check in, and the third child has free reign. Typical.

Pro #2: But also being the favorite child.

Being the first son/daughter, grandson/granddaughter, nephew/niece has its perks.

Con #2: Constantly getting mocked by your younger siblings for being the favorite child.

This one makes you feel a little guilty, but it’s mostly annoying.

Pro #3: You get to be the first child to experience major stepping stones and can set the paths for your siblings.

You're the first one to go to get your driver’s license, graduate from high school and go to college.

Con #3: Sometimes, making those paths can be scary.

You don’t have anyone to follow and it's like walking into the unknown. It’s exciting to be the first sibling to do things, but it can also be unnerving -- especially when your friend’s older siblings tell you stories just to scare you.

Pro #4: Being treated like an adult at a young age.

If you have to set an example, your parents are going to make sure you set a good one. You will be expected to be more mature, responsible and thoughtful at a younger age than your siblings.

Con#4: Having a permanent spot at the kids table.

I personally see this one as more of a pro, but it differs from person to person. Some of us are 20 years old and still sit at the kids table. It’s fine.

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