In two days, I'll be going home to Illinois for a short break. I get to see my family, my friends, and, of course, my cat. I love going to school where I go, and I think there are major benefits for choosing to go to an out-of-state school but I need to go home.
It's been a very busy year for me. I've taken on many new responsibilities and I regret none of it but every once in a while, it's nice to take a step back from all of it. I'm eagerly anticipating mornings spent sleeping in my own bed, in my own room. Home-cooked meals are a luxury that I all too frequently take for granted and I can't wait to have some of my mom's mashed potatoes at Thanksgiving.
I know I'm lucky. This will be one of the many things I'm thankful for around this time of year. I go to a house that isn't divided by politics. My family and I all share similar views. I don't feel threatened by talking about what I think to my parents. And unfortunately, this year, that's not going to be the case for many people.
My heart goes out to all of the people who can't have the conversations I can have with my family. My heart goes out to all the people who can't go home for whatever reason.
Thankfulness goes beyond family and friends. Thankfulness is also being able to talk to your family peacefully. Knowing you're safe in your own home. It's how I've grown up and I've grown very accustomed to that lifestyle. I was recently told by someone that privilege doesn't exist, but I can't see how that's true when I am so privileged.
I get to go home to both my parents and our home. I can fly from Minnesota to Illinois to do that. That is privilege, and one I take for granted very frequently.
This Thanksgiving, I'm taking the time to acknowledge all of the things that I frequently overlook and the things that I may take for granted.