As each day is passing, the trees are beginning to grow leaves, and the grass is slowly becoming greener. Spring is finally approaching us; change is upon us.
I never did well with the thought of change growing up. I felt things needed to always remain the same, and change was the worst thing that could happen to me. I would cling to things even if I knew they were not helping me grow as a person due to this fear. Whether it was a good change, bad change or much needed change, I did not like the thought of something different occurring in my life.
I have learned in the past year that change is the best thing that could happen to you. Change is unavoidable, and it occurs every single day whether you notice it or like it. It’s healthy to open your mind to things you normally wouldn’t because it will help you grow as a person. Whether it’s trying a new food or cutting your hair two inches shorter, you’re learning a little more about who you want to become. If you look back on yourself five years ago, would you say you want to be that person right now? Personally, I would not be happy if I were that same person I was five years ago. I could tell you that I was foolish, let people take advantage of me and was very insecure. After all the life experiences and forced change, I have become a stronger and better person.
There are a lot of people out there who still hate change the way I used to, but once you wrap your head around this fear, you realize everyday a little about yourself. Waking up with a positive mindset and realizing you want to grow as a person is the only way to make change easier for you. Making better decisions or trying new things will only enhance your future. Change is a great thing and in order to be the best version of yourself, you need to see the beauty in it.