With the primaries wrapping up and the general presidential election creeping closer, a politically fueled discussion with peers is almost inevitable. Politics, a topic often backed by passionate beliefs, can often be avoided in conversation for the sake of keeping the peace. It can turn a lovely conversation with friends into a verbal bloodbath in a matter of seconds. Politics can also breed judgmental feelings toward others in the closed-minded. It is nearly impossible to go a week without hearing one of these phrases:

“Screw that brainless Trump supporter. He’s probably racist and sexist because he’s voting for a bigot.”

“They went to a Bernie rally. They must be lazy, ignorant socialists who feel entitled to free stuff.”

“That idiot is voting for lying Hillary. Does he even know where she stands on any issue?”

This type of thinking is what divides Americans during presidential elections. Families are torn apart. Friendships come to a close. Coworkers avoid eye contact. Unfortunately, differing views divide many Americans to such extremes, that relationships that began with a strong bond end in hate.

Physical violence is also often a politically fueled issue in America. Earlier in the month, protestors of a Trump Rally in San Jose, CA egged (and in some cases, punched) Trump supporters for merely showing support for the nominee. Is this really how Americans choose to treat each other in response to utilizing their First Amendment rights?

Another example of political violence is the Planned Parenthood shooting that resulted in the death of three last November. The motive for such actions was extreme disgust over abortions that are conducted through the organization. In other words, the gunman admitted to murdering three for the sake of being pro-life. These actions are despicable and intolerable.

However, discussing and sharing political views can be beneficial to Americans. An honest debate with peers often forms and strengthens political ideals. To find success in a debate, political views must be shared maturely. All participants must understand that you can respect others’ views without agreeing with them. Respect is key to discussing differing views without causing conflict. Discussing politics with the opposition is crucial to understanding why the opposition believes in their stance, resulting in a more informed take on the issues.

These educated views can then be brought to the voting booth, the only place that truly matters in an election. Forcing opinions on others, ending relationships and injuring others will not change anyone’s mind behind the curtain. The number of voters can make a difference in who becomes president. The right to vote is a privilege provided to American citizens that many others lack. Make a difference and use that privilege.