The Perks Of Having International Friends | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

The Perks Of Having International Friends

All friends are great, but there's something special about the international ones.

952
The Perks Of Having International Friends
Pexels

If you're anything like me, you fantasized about having penpals when you were growing up.

There was always something magical about exchanging handwritten letters in the mail to a stranger across the globe. For whatever reason, though, I never really pursued that interest. Maybe I understood that sending letters was impractical when email was a free alternative, or maybe I was just too shy to actually put myself out there. No matter the reason, though, I didn't make any international friends until my high school years.

Let me tell you...becoming friends with people who aren't from America is a special thing.

There are so many benefits to branching out to international friends. I could go on for ages talking about the perks of having connections all across the globe, but to keep things simple I've compiled a list of a few of my favorite reasons that you may have never considered before.


1. You get to learn about places that you may never get to go to.

As much as I would like to, I don’t think that I will ever make it to every country on my bucket list. It’s a sad reality, but at the same time, I don’t have to feel too bad. I have friends who live in many countries that I will likely never get to go to, and they can give me an authentic taste of what it’s like to be there.

If I never make it to Germany, Egypt, England, Turkey, or any of the other countries represented through my friend group, I can still see what it's like being there from the perspective of someone who knows the country best.


2. You start paying more attention to global news.

Before having international friends I rarely paid attention to local news, much less news from all over the globe. Now, though, I feel like I'm checking up on World-Wide news daily in an attempt to keep up with the happenings in my friend's countries.

It also gives you an emotional connection to events that would be unrelated to you, otherwise. When I see that something has happened that could directly affect one of my friends, I go full worried-mom mode until I find out that they're okay.


3. So. Much. Food!

This is a more lighthearted note, but hey...food is an important thing. I've gotten plenty of food ideas from my international friends, as well as gotten a taste (no pun intended) of what their traditional meals are like through pictures and videos exchanged.

On top of that, a lot of countries have food-related festivals and holidays, which just adds to the awesome documentation of food and fun. My mouth is watering just thinking about it.


4. You get to see what America looks like to a non-American.

This is one of my favorites on the list. For a long time, I never thought to consider what America was like from an outsider's point of view, but now that I have so many different people talking about what they perceive America to be like, it really causes me to think about my lifestyle and reconsider any biases I may have.

One of my absolute favorite things to hear my non-American friends talk about is American politics. Half the time they offer insightful opinions, and other times they send me Hillary and/or Trump-related memes. It's wonderful.


5. You form a different type of bond with people online.

Most communication between international friends is done solely online, taking away the physical aspect of friendship and replacing it with anything else that you can find that helps hold the bond together. Most people use voice messaging or video chatting as their alternative, but nearly anything can become a funny way to get to know one another, including Snapchat selfies, memes, and videos of you singing the KFC jingle (don't ask, trust me).


6. It's a great way to make friends if you are very anti-social and introverted.

This one is a little different from the rest, in the sense that it's more of a reason to befriend people internationally instead of a result of having already done so. As an introvert, I sometimes find myself struggling with wanting to see my friends face-to-face. Anybody who is an introvert will know what I mean when I say that we need a "recharge time."

Sometimes it's great to have a set of friends that you can talk to while you stay home in your pajamas all day. Online friends, in general, are a great way for introverts to recharge from particularly extroverted activities, and international friends add an extra layer of excitement by helping you learn a little bit about their culture while you snack on some popcorn and watch Netflix.



Making international friends has never been easier than it is today. It's 2016, the majority of us have smartphones and social media, so it's very easy to connect with people from all over the world. If you've never befriended anybody from outside of your own country, I strongly urge you to give it a try. It's a great experience for all parties involved.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190809
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

15219
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

458100
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26749
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments