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What You Look For In A Guy, As Told By Your Favorite One Direction Member

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What You Look For In A Guy, As Told By Your Favorite One Direction Member
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It has officially been two years since the start of One Direction's infamous "hiatus," and some fans still are not okay (myself included.) Since going solo, the boys have really come into their own as public figures, and it just goes to show how far they have come. Since the band's formation over seven years ago, we've really learned to fall in love with these boys. The last seven years have been nothing short of eventful, and in a way, it feels as though we've grown up with them.

As they date, and begin to have children and families of their own (it's so crazy to think two of them already have kids!), so are their fans. Navigating the millennial world of dating is already hard enough, but when you're not entirely sure what you're exactly looking for in a potential boyfriend, it becomes a whole lot messier. Luckily, if you look at your interests, past and present, you're likely to not only discover more about yourself, but what you're looking for in a relationship.

Of course, everyone is different, and most of us are not the same person we once were when we were fourteen. We may not be the same crazed teens with poster adorned walls, and cut-up special-edition magazines that we once were, but deep down we still are the same people who once upon a time adored these boys. Whether your favorite member has remained constant since 2010, or you love them all so much you can't make up your mind, find out what your favorite One Direction member says about what you look for in a guy.


1. Niall Horan

Your ideas of a perfect date consist of indie concerts, trips to vintage vinyl record stores, and nights in with takeout. Food is also a passion you want to share with your partner — enjoying good food is not a pastime, it's a hobby; a mood changer. You're always down to adventure somewhere, but need time to unwind properly. All in all, you just want someone down to Earth, who won't take life too seriously (or atleast without some hysterical laughing along the way.)


2. Harry Styles

A gent with a heart of gold, and an even better closet. Charm, wit, and a weird side that he is not afraid to hide are essential, and non-negotiable. Plus dimples. Oh. My. God. The dimples!!


3. Liam Payne


Known as the dad of the group, Liam is the type of guy to really take care of you. Though you may be an independent person, you may have tendencies to be dependent in your relationships. You need someone who is secure enough in his masculinity, that he won’t make you compromise your independence, while at the same time will always make sure you’re taken care of.


4. Zayn Malik

Once a member, always a member. (Though I still personally haven’t forgiven him for leaving, kudos to you because clearly you have to be reading this.) You are miss independent, and a free spirit who wants a little mystery in her life. This lust for mystery especially comes out when it comes to relationships — the more private, the better. Confidence and a sensitive side are key.


5. Louis Tomlinson


Predictability is the last thing you want in a potential boyfriend. You want someone to have a good laugh with, but always be by your side when things get serious. You also want someone outspoken, who is not afraid to unleash sass when appropriate (and sometimes when inapropriate.) Ideally, your boyfriend would be a best-friend/boyfriend all in one, package deal.

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