Is it freedom? Or a total depression?
To some people being single is the best thing in the world. Freedom to be who you are. That is a wonderful feeling. To others who are not good at it, I promise the pain will end.
It goes so much deeper than the term, “Single.”
This is how deep it goes in your frantic mind:
Picture this. You just graduated college, on your way to the real world. Okay, check you are independently on your own and life is good, until you feel that you are missing something in your life. Your mom keeps asking you when you are going to get married or if you met someone. Next thing you know you are at your best friends wedding, and things seem to get real weird. You used to do shots with these people and talk for hours till four in the morning, in college. Weddings suck for single people because it makes them question, “What am I doing, am I unlovable?”
Okay first of all, never ask that question, and second of all, your time will come. I do not care what anyone says, everybody wants somebody to care for and love. Love is part of the human experience. It is part of being human, Happiness is only true, if it is shared.
Some people are "Ted Mosbys", and some are "Barney Stinsons," but even Barney fell in love.
Just some wise words for anybody that is going through a hard time with a breakup, or whatever you got going on. Always a pleasure Darlings. Remember time is key, and do not get boggled down in wondering when it will come.