I'm so sick of seeing these no-good guys treating these amazing girls like shit. It's so sad that I can sit here and count off multiple girls that I know off the top of my head who have gotten thrown to the side by some guy who managed to make her feel like she wasn't worth it. Listen. It took me YEARS to get this mindset. But I learned to be confident in myself enough to know that I deserve WAY better than some dude who's not going to appreciate me for who I am. You deserve someone who makes you feel beautiful and never puts any other girls above you. Never makes you feel like you're not enough for him. You don't have to be Miss America to deserve someone who treats you right. Don't let any guy try to make you feel like you're in competition for his attention. You need to stand the hell up, dust yourself off, and realize who the fuck you are. Does he realize who you are? No? Then drop him. He doesn't deserve to know you. You don't deserve to be fucked over by someone who doesn't appreciate your worth or even know it. But YOU have to know your worth before you can expect someone else to. So hold your head high and never let that crown fall. Remember: you are a queen and no guy is worth forgetting it. If he wants to ruin someone's life, let him go do that. But you are way too good for that. You are way too good to let someone make you look or feel dumb. You are way too good to let someone walk all over you. You can’t go all ways. Pick a direction and move forward. Commit yourself today. Why are you letting someone do that to you? Do you know how beautiful and important you are? Don't let some douche bag make you think otherwise. Don't go running after him either. If he managed to show you how much of an asshole he is, don't step off your throne to go chase him. You're way too good for that. You're above chasing a nobody. What does he have that someone else might not have? So what he's attractive. Do you realize how many attractive people there are in the world? And you're pressed over ONE who can't even treat you right? Oh, but you're attached to him right? But why? Why are you attached to him? Why are you attached to someone who treats you like that? What made you attached to him? Think about that. Because I can guarantee you're not attached to him because of how good he treats you. Open your eyes ladies. Seriously. Stop making yourself look dumb and stop giving these guys the confidence to go do this to other girls. You know what's really going to hurt his ego? The day you finally step back, turn around, and walk away for good. Stop giving him the attention he wants. He doesn't deserve it from you. You're too good for him. Please, please realize that.
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Regardless of what you may have gone through, nothing can change the banter and personal communication you and your friends share. Nothing feels awkward or forced because you are having too much fun catching up!
2. You plan your outings around each other's schedules.
Your friend's work schedules or class schedules are memorized like the back of your hand. They are your priority, and you will do anything you can to get them to join you on adventures when it is convenient to do so.
3. You say 'I love you' on the phone.
Yes, you may say it in real life too, but saying it after a phone call means it has become a customary for you to validate your appreciate for one other. Like a significant other or family member, you feel the desire to express your love at the end of a conversation.
4. Nothing is boring when you are together.
No matter what you do together, you always have a good time. Why? Because your friends' company is all you need. With the right people, you can make any situation memorable.
5. You share weird inside jokes no one else understands.
And you would like to keep it that way. If you are anything like my friend group, we share a strange family dynamic that has lasted as a running joke forever. No matter what it is, your inside jokes and sly smirks will keep the spirits up for ages.
6. You plan to hang out for a couple hours but end up together the entire day.
So now you just expect it and prepare for a 24-hour long get-together. Naps are often a part of the agenda.
7. The hugs say a thousand words.
Perhaps you do it a little too much, but the hugs you share are always meaningful and comforting. Gotta love those group hugs especially!
8. You go on spontaneous adventures together.
It is where your favorite memories come from. Even though you might not be able to do them as much as you would like, you are always down for a trip, big or small, with the group.
9. You consider each other family.
Because you consider each other family, you treat each other like family. Constant love, constant support, and a tremendous amount of meals spent together.
10. They make you a better person.
It is not a special friend group unless you learn from one another. You had to be selective when choosing your friends and when you did, you felt like they could teach you a thing or two. Their actions influence who you are and you could not be more thankful.
11. You can't imagine life without them.
The very thought scares you and sends your heart racing. Thankfully, the ultimate friend group is right there with you so you never have to second-guess their loyalty. Instead, you can bask in the glory that is your ultimate friend group. #squadgoals.
1. No school = no stress.
There are no essays to write, no books to read, and no deadlines to meet. The only worry in the world is keeping track of putting sunblock on.
2. Country music is more fun to listen to.
All true fans will listen to country music 365 days a year, but we all know that it's so much better in the summer when you can roll down the windows.
3. Your skin looks and feels better.
Even if you don't have the type of skin that tans, there is more color there than in the winter ... maybe. Freckles, tan lines, peeling burns and clear skin make for a happier camper. You'll forget all about the ghost version of yourself that was shedding dry skin like a snake over the winter.
4. Being barefoot 24/7 is an option.
Obviously wearing no shoes in the middle of a blizzard isn't acceptable. You know what is, though? Wearing no shoes in the summer ever because why not?
5. Ice cream is an acceptable snack.
For people like me who can't resist ice cream even on a 10 degree day, summer is a giant ice cream blessing. Not only does it taste like heaven, it's actually refreshing.
6. Minimal clothing is required.
Is there anything worse than having to put on layers in the wintertime only to sweat to death the minute you come back inside? No need for more than a tank top and shorts in the summertime.
7. Going to the beach daily isn't weird.
Now that it's hot, it's beach season. If you live near the ocean there is an excuse to drive there day or night, rain or shine. Staying there all day is an option for those who don't burn, and for those who do, you can always come back at night for a bonfire.
8. Cookouts.
Even when they lead to disaster, summertime cookouts are the best. Nothing completes a cookout more than watermelon and corn on the cob.
9. Night swimming.
Oh the thrill of jumping in freezing cold water in the middle of the night. Good thing the air becomes colder than the water, making the pool like a giant bathtub.
10. Spontaneous adventures.
Summertime gives you the freedom to wake up in the morning and decide to do something totally out of the blue that you've never done before. Hiking to a waterfall, rock climbing, going to a museum, or even road tripping are all great summer options.
Even if the heat isn't really your thing, it's undeniable to admit that life really is better in the summer. There's so much more free time, opportunity, excitement and sunshine. Only four months to go!
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