I believe in timing. Timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down one's throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. You can't love someone into loving you. You can't make someone fall in love with you. You have to love yourself. Self love is everything. Don't lose yourself trying to fix what is meant to stay broken. Your future.. Will always have clarity of why something didn't work out. Everything takes time.. healing, grieving, success, etc.. but you should always refuse to waste your time by entertaining hate. Don't engage in others negativity, you don't need ones jealousy or hatred in your life. Be so focused on your success and not worry about your insecurities. Allow your passion to become your purpose. Once you learn to love yourself, everything else slowly begins to fall into place. Things such as success, you might define success by what car you drive, or how much money you make.. But why base your "success" solely on outcome-based actions. We live in a society that tells us that we are successful when our actions produce something that we posess or own. This mentality can lead to variety of problems, including being overly critical of yourself, you can't let one downfall make you believe you have a horrible life. Be excited to fulfill the things that give you purpose. When you realize who you are and the person you want to become, and believe that when you are doing activities that fulfill you, that is when you are truly successful. Sooner than later you will realize why something that once meant so much to you didn't work out.. sometimes those are the things that are pulling you from being the best you possibly can. So let things go, don't force them to stay. Let time do its thing and create a better you