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Here Are Some Open Letters To My Haters

This is for you.

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Sep 28, 2018

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To be perfectly honest, I never had an easy time making friends or just talking to people in general. Between my ongoing anxiety and the fact that I try to please others instead of caring about myself, I feel as though sometimes I don't know how to interact with new people and even my friends that I had for years.

However, it is not always my fault. Some people are just plain rude and stupid. Here is what I have to say to some of those people.

1. To the girl who thinks I did her wrong.

You say that I owe you an apology for talking about you behind your back, when I wasn't and I apologized for the same stuff months ago when I didn't say anything. You say, "Friends don't talk badly about friends," when we aren't even close to being friends because you're the one being distant.

You feel threatened by me because you think I'm going to "steal" your boyfriend. In reality, you got him by the balls and he wouldn't ever leave you even if I tried to, but I wouldn't. You don't let him have any contact with me, and I lost my friend because of you. I told him that I liked him because it would eat me alive if I didn't. I didn't do it to take him.

You are the craziest girl I've ever met, and I do not need you in my life. I never want to be friends with someone as toxic as you.

2. To the teacher who doesn’t have trust in me.

Honestly, you are one of my favorite teachers and I've learned a lot from you. You always just tell me to "stop being nervous" when I audition for you. You make me want to be nervous. You never help me figure out ways to overcome the nerves. You make them worse.

Then, you go and give me parts that I know are too easy for me. You always say, "You aren't ready for lead roles because you don't have confidence." How can I be confident when you baby me too much? How do you know I'm not ready for a lead when you don't give me the opportunity? Give me a chance and if I fall flat on my face, you can say I told you so then.

I still love you very much, but this is what frustrates me.

3. To any boy I wasted time on.

Thank you for showing me what not to look for in a future husband. You all suck, except for the two I call some of my best friends. I love you, T & W.

4. To myself.

You are beautiful. You are smart. You are strong. You are confident. You are caring. You are enough. I love you for you.

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Here Are Some Open Letters To My Haters

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1. To the girl who thinks I did her wrong.

2. To the teacher who doesn’t have trust in me.

3. To any boy I wasted time on.

4. To myself.

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Sleepovers are not a thing. They're just not.

1. You only ask things once.

2. Seriously, you only ask once.

3. When you do muster up the courage to ask your parents for something, you creep around and wait until they’re in a good mood.

4. Before you get that final yes, you have to go through an interview.

5. If you ever got “the eye,” you knew you were screwed.

6. You were always the first to leave your group of friends when hanging out.

7. If you say you will be home at a certain time, you better be home at that time.

8. Seeing a missed call from your parents sends fear and horror through your veins.

9. If relatives are coming over to the house, your room better be clean.

10. You are careful about what jokes you share with your parents.

11. "You’re not an adult until you turn 18! You can do whatever you want then!"

12. If plans change while you’re out, you better text or call.

13. Don’t talk back. Ever.

14. When you’re called by your full name, you’re in deep trouble.

15. Don’t make them call your name twice.

16. Sleepovers are not a thing.

17. Despite all of these things, you know your parents love you.

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5. Hosting

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10. Cleaning

11. Social life

No, really. I'm not mad. Just hungry.

1. You’re tired of people asking you if you know what “RBF” stands for every time you zone out.

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5. But when you are, people usually can’t tell.

6. You find other people with RBF’s and have to convince yourself that you don’t look like them.

7. You constantly remind yourself, “At least I’m not a psycho.”

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6. How much will I get paid?

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8. Maybe if I call mom, she'll give me money.

9. How much do street performers make anyway?

10. Why am I here? I could be a street performer by now.

11. Oh right, I'm not talented.

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