An Open Letter To The Incoming Freshie | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post

An Open Letter To The Incoming Freshie

For All The Upcoming Freshman Out There

27
An Open Letter To The Incoming Freshie

I know.. you are at a point in your life where you feel like you know everything and you are ready to now be an "adult" and move into your first dorm where you'll meet awesome new people. But, before you go off to school this fall, try to understand what is going on around you at the moment.

I am 23 years old and I am about to graduate college in less than two weeks, and life has hit me harder now that I am leaving, then entering. So I am just wanting to give advice to that freshman girl/guy who may feel just as lost as I was my freshman year.

First things first...

Your friends that went to your old high school probably won't be your friends anymore once you go to college. I do not mean that you guys may every so often like an Insta post, but you learn to go your separate ways.

Do NOT, I repeat DO NOT move in with your best friend from high school. Yes, there are some BFF's out there that are still thriving after living together, but from the stories I have heard, it is not a logical idea if you guys want to remain BFF's.

Also, call your parents. I know going back to on your own and you're now an adult. But, your parents miss you more than ever. You have to think about your presence is no longer there in your house, therefore, they miss you. So just call them. Saying hi to them will make their day.

Study, study, study. I think we all have made the mistakes Freshman year and not studying and deciding to stay up until 3 am watching movies and laughing with your roomie. But, trust me studying for that Bio test will pay off in the end.

I'm sure if you are a freshman reading this, you may ask why are you giving us this advice. I am giving advice to the Freshie out there because I want you guys to know to have fun and live in the moment, but also don't rush it. Trust me... life hits hard and you wish you could go back to being 18 year old you, Freshman year!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190011
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

14782
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

457756
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26581
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments