"A cousin is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost."

Dear Cousin,

Ever since I was four years old and I held you as a baby, you and I have been inseparable. I can remember playing dolls with you in your room, dancing to songs from Camp Rock, and trying to teach you how to play piano. We've been on vacations to Disney and Hilton Head together, and we've made memories that I will never forget. Over the years, we both have become so close. We grew up together and watched each other change. As your older cousin, I've had the opportunity to see you grow into the person you are today.

I want to thank you for always being there for me. Having a cousin like you is truly a gift because you're not only my cousin, but one of my best friends. You're one of the nicest people that I know and I am so happy that we are so close. I want nothing but the best for you, because you deserve it. I want you to know how loved you are and how much you matter to me.

I know that high school isn't easy. I know that you are probably overwhelmed with assignments, social events, and thinking about the future. I know that some days you're up all night doing homework and I know that sometimes it seems like it will never get easier. You probably wonder if everything is worth it. I want to let you know that it will be worth it. Your hard work will pay off and you will go far.

I also want to let you know that you are worthy of a good life. Be prepared for hard days and remember that life isn't easy. Some days you might feel like the world is falling apart, and that it will never get better. But I want you to remember that you are going to be okay. No matter what happens in life, remember that everything happens for a reason and you should never give up hope. As someone who has made it through hard times, I want to let you know now that if you ever experience something difficult (which nearly everyone does), you will make it through. Our struggles in life are what ultimately make us stronger. As your older cousin who cares about you and loves you, I want you to know that life isn't easy, but it really is good. As long as you love life, life will love you back.

I love you so much and I will always be here for you.

Your cousin,

Clare <3