To my unborn child,

You may not have been planned but just know you were never a mistake. Your daddy and I are so excited to meet you in a few months. I’m writing this letter to let you know how much I love you, cherish you, and care for you even though I have never met you. There are a lot of scary things happening in this world, and I pray that you will not have to face any of them alone, let alone face them at all. Your father and I only want the best for you, and I hope this letter will one day find its way to you in some shape or form. I am not sure if I will still be writing for Odyssey when you are old enough to understand any of this but I will try my best to keep this on the internet as long as I possibly can.

There are people in this world who will try and break you down and tear you apart but I need you to be strong and hold out as long as you can. Make sure to always treat people with respect, purity, and love.

Your father and I haven't lived a perfect and flawless life and I don't expect you to either, but don't forget where you come from and always uphold your morals and values. It’s ok to make mistakes. And it’s ok to be imperfect. Please don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! While the rest of the world may be pressuring you to look, act, and dress a certain way, I want to encourage you to be nothing but yourself.

You don’t have to agree with everyone’s decisions, but I do want to encourage you to at least respect people you come in contact with. There are too many people in this world strong life of hate, and the reality is that the world needs people like you to love without boundaries. Love your friends, your family, your enemies, and even people you don’t even know.

When you feel unwanted, unloved or anything less just know you are surrounded by people who love you unconditionally and want nothing but the best for you in life.

No matter what happens in life, you can always come back home to your mom and dad. This simple yet powerful truth is something that will keep our family strong, bonded, and loving in an unshakeable way.

We’re never going to judge you, beat you over the head with criticism, or even make you regret ever opening your heart to us. No matter what happens, we will always be willing to talk to you with open ears and an open heart. We don’t want you to ever be afraid to tell us what you’re going through in life. I’m positive we’re eventually going to have some tough conversations, but as long as you know we both love you and want the best for you.

I can not wait until you are here in my arms. I can't wait to see how you grow up. I can't wait to see if you will have my nose that runs soooo deep in my family or if you will have your daddies red hair. I love you already and want nothing but the best for you, baby. I hope I make you proud that I am your mommy. I never want to fail you or make you ashamed of me.