Dear graduating high school seniors,
Wow. It's surreal to think the time has come, isn't it? I'm sure this whole year, the word "last" has non-stop bounced its way off your lips. Your last homecoming, your last football game, your last club meeting, your last sports game, your last class with your favorite teacher, your last shenanigans with your best friends. As bittersweet as it may be, this year of lasts is not everlasting. In a few short months, you will leave the comfort of high school where you've known the same people since middle school, maybe even elementary school, and dive into a completely new environment. So, tear up that dance floor at your last prom, walk confidently across that stage at graduation, and get ready for a whole new set of adventures. Here are some tips from someone who has walked in your shoes!
Say your thanks.
When it comes to graduation season, you are going to get a lot of attention. Your friends will sign your yearbook with tear-jerking novels and your second aunt once removed who you haven't seen in ages will send you a congratulatory card with grad money. With all these kind words, wishes, and gifts pouring in, keep in mind that you likely wouldn't be where you are without the help of incredible people along the way. Let them know that. Whether it be buying small gifts or writing heartfelt letters, be sure to return the thanks. This is just as much about celebrating all your supportive loved ones as it is about you. Spread the love!
Appreciate the little things.
When August rolls around, your mom won't be there to nag you about going grocery shopping with her, and your sibling won't be there to royally piss you off by eating your leftovers. You'll find that you strangely miss all these things you once despised. So, for the next couple months, maximize your time with your family and friends. Go to the grocery store instead of watching Netflix, go out with your friends instead of sleeping in, go to all your favorite parts of your hometown and take it all in. Enjoy the comfort of showering without shower shoes, soak in the coziness of your own bed, and eat more of mama's home-cooking. As much change as you are about to experience, it's the little things that will appear the biggest.
Be open-minded, set goals, and get excited.
How am I going to make new friends? What major am I going to declare? What clubs do I join? Who am I going to eat with on the first day of school?! Breathe. It's all going to be okay. Leave your door open on move-in day so your hall-mates can come introduce themselves. If they don't, go introduce yourself! Be friendly during Orientation and engaged on the first day of class. Don't freak out about a major change if you find something you're more passionate about. Challenge yourself to join at least two organizations. Always go to interest meetings, even if it means going by yourself. News flash: Things don't get handed to you in college. You have to go out and get it. While stepping out of your comfort zone may be a little intimidating, it is incredibly rewarding. So, own who you are, be a go-getter, and I promise, everything will fall into place.
