Dear High School Senior,
It's exciting isn't it? You're almost done with long school days followed by hours of homework and sports in the town you grew up in. I know it's incredibly exciting, but it's also overwhelming. Final projects and grades are in progress, and as much as you want to just call it quits sometimes, push through. I know you're tired of hearing it, but grades are important, whether you're an straight "A" student or not. But beyond high school is the next big step: college. College is a big decision, and everyone has been asking where you're going and what your major is since your junior year. College is amazing; the experiences, professors, and friendships are completely different from high school, and I encourage you to take full advantage of what is offered to you. But here's the thing: college isn't for everyone. Society pushes the idea of only two options — going to college or not going to college — but there is more. Nobody told me gap years were such a common break, but they are. Its OK not to know where you want to go or what you want to do. A lot of students get pressured into picking a major by their parents, teachers or peers, but in reality, beginning college undecided is more beneficial than having to switch your major your second semester. Here's the other thing. There's a lot of pressure to know where you're going your senior year, but your decision doesn't have to be made until the spring. It's OK to take as long as you need to decide.
So here's my advice to you, high school senior:
Enjoy high school. Even though I can't say I miss it, high school was filled with many good memories that I wouldn't ever want to have missed. Don't be afraid to be a kid every now and then. Find that thing to do with your sibling(s) that becomes "your thing". Let your parents have their clingy over-protective moments. Even though you're dying to get away, find a place in your hometown that always makes you feel glad to be home. Let yourself and/or your friends embarrass you. It's awkward and uncomfortable, but embarrassment is part of life, and sooner or later, you're going to have to learn to own it. Finally, listen to people's opinions and advice, because it can be incredibly helpful, but in the end remember to rely on your instinct.
You've got this, homie.
Signed,
the College Freshman
