Dear Step Mom,

I was wrong. I was under the misconception that the second someone “stepped in” for my mom I would be thrown into a revival of a classic Disney film experiencing the wickedness of what it is like to have a stepmom. I imagined being a burden, slowly pushed to the side and forgotten about, yet again. Thankfully, you have proven Disney and myself entirely fallacious. I am forever grateful.

Thank you for stepping in. Thank you for accepting me as your own and creating an environment that is rich and full of love, care and stability. I am so extremely lucky, and continue to ask myself on a daily basis what it is that I did to deserve someone so caring, loving, dependable, nurturing and empathetic. Before you, I longed for a role model, someone to help guide me, and then you came along. You have taught me so much about myself and who it is that I want to become in the future. You have always taught me to think bigger than my confidence allows me.

I know it is definitely not easy being a mom, or a stepmom for that matter. I would assume that one of the hardest things about being a mom would be on the receiving end of the mood swing tantrums, the lack of appreciation for all that you do and the constant worrying about whether or not your child is doing okay. Somehow, you never give up. I am amazed at the way you accept these challenges with open arms and tackle them in a way that never ceases to amaze me. You are so patient and strong, thank you.

I know I may not say it often, but I love you. There is absolutely no constellation of stars that is larger than my love for you and all that you do. Words cannot begin to describe all that you have taught me about life and all the amazing possibilities that are out there if I would just apply myself. Before you “stepped in” I lacked that motherly support. I consistently fought with myself, resulting in me believing that I was not “good” enough. I never really had my mom by my side to cheer me on or tell me that I was doing well. I felt like I was just another child with big dreams that were too unrealistic to reach. Everything changed when you came along. You taught me to trust in myself and to never give up, especially when times may seem to be getting tough. You taught me to persevere and to never allow the fear of failing keep me from trying. You have cheered me on, attended numerous musicals, concerts, banquets and signed way too many checks for college but most importantly you have been my coach, my mentor. Whether it’s financial help, lending me a shoulder to cry on or just being that friend to talk to in times of need, you have always been there, I value that presence above all else.

I am so extremely lucky to have someone so astounding. God sent me you and I know exactly the reason why; you are a life-changer. Thank you for the dreams imagined, the fun times created and the numerous times I have been inspired. Thank you for changing my life, for loving my dad (even though it may be difficult at times) and for making such a lasting impression on my life.

With love and sincere gratitude,

Your Son