To My Sister Who Is Close In Age | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

To My Sister Who Is Close In Age

The best friend I got to grow up with.

221
To My Sister Who Is Close In Age
Molly Springer

My best friend, my worst enemy, my confidant, my shoulder to cry on; my sister is many things to me.

.

Eighteen months apart to some is a lot but in high school, it was way too close for us. Arguing over clothes, shoes, friends, makeup, and literally, everything else was a constant our house. There were even a couple of stray elbows and closed fists that were thrown every now and then if mom was far enough away not to intervene.

As we've grown older things have definitely changed. Where I live in a busy city that overwhelms you, you live in a small town that underwhelms me. Our visits home don't usually ever match up and I can't remember the last time we stayed up late gossiping about all the boys we used to think were cute.

Although we aren't as close in proximity as we used to be, I would argue that we are closer emotionally than we have ever been. You have your life and I have mine, even though we don't know every detail I still have a grasp on what you do day-to-day that makes me feel close to you.

When you need me I will always answer the phone or take your dog to the vet just like you would do for me. You are my personal WebMD when I am a hypochondriac. You are my mediator with our parents. But most of all, no matter where we are in life, you are my best friend.

"Sisters grow separately without growing apart" is a constant reminder of how our bond is in many ways separate but in much more ways so special.

I was always envious of the kids growing up who were only children because I was so used to sharing everything with you but now I realize how unbelievably lucky I was to have you across the hall loving and defending me and most of all putting me in my place.

Our lives will continue to grow and march on different paths but never will I worry that you won't be my best friend, late night call, lunch date, therapist, personal doctor, my sister.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Lifestyle

Pros And Cons Of Having A Birthday Near The Holidays

The truth of what it is like having a birthday around the holiday season.

522
Christmas decoration
Flickr

It's the most wonderful time of the year!! But for some people, including myself and my Dad, it can have its ups and downs when it comes to having a birthday near and around the holiday season. I personally share a birthday with my Dad two days before Christmas. Yes, Christmas Eve Eve is our birthday. Here are a few pros and cons for having a birthday near the holidays.

Keep Reading...Show less
Christmas Tree Lights
Pixabay

It is that time of year again. Christmastime. It is one of my favorite seasons for a myriad of reasons. Here are just a few reasons why I love Christmas. This list is in no order of importance.

1. The Christmas decorations

I am that person who will decorate directly after Thanksgiving is over. This year, my roommates and I put the tree up in our apartment before we even left for Thanksgiving break. It is a great stress reliever for me to just sit in my living room and work on the huge amount of work I have before the semester is over.

Keep Reading...Show less
girl with santa hat
Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash

'Tis the season to be jolly folks, and if you're anything like me, then at the stroke of midnight on Halloween your home went from wicked to winter

Keep Reading...Show less
mistake
Project Eve

Mistakes are something we all make, no matter how old we get. Most of the time, the mistakes we made are little and sometimes due to something out of our control. Yet, there are mistakes that are bigger than others. Personally, I have mistakes that I wish I could go back and undo. Here they are:

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

5 Things To Do That Are Better Than Writing A Paper

Don't waste your time trying to write that paper when there are so many more interesting things you could be doing.

12621
computer keyboard
Unsplash

Writing a paper is never fun and is rarely rewarding. The writer's block, the page requirement, be specific, but don’t summarize, make sure you fixed any grammatical errors, did you even use spellcheck? and analyze, analyze, analyze.

Papers can be a major pain. They take up so much time and effort that by the end of the process you hate yourself and you hate the professor for making life so difficult. Questions of your existence start roaming in your mind. Am I even cut out for college if I can’t write a single paper? Am I even capable of taking care of myself if I lack the energy to open my laptop and start typing?

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments