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An Open Letter To My Non-Biological Sister

Thank you for being the sister I never had.

Monica Franquiz

Oct 04, 2016

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An Open Letter To My Non-Biological Sister

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"Keep on loving each other as brothers and sisters." - Hebrews 13:1

First of all, thank you. Thank you for being the sister I never had. Thank you for showing me that I can have family that isn't my "family." Thank you for being there when I had no idea who to turn to. Thank you for loving me like only a sister can. I have never been more thankful that God put someone in my life.

Thank you for being my first roommate. When my parents opened up our home to a broke college students, I had no idea what kind of relationship was about to form. When I first met you, we were in Philly and I had no idea I would ever see you again; then all of a sudden this girl I thought I was never going to see again was about to invade my room. However, it was one of the best things that could have happened to me. You helped me transition back to public school after being in public school for four years. You wrote me notes in my agenda (that you gave me as a back to school gift) and my mirror all the time and I loved them more each time. You were the reason I was excited to have a roommate in college.

Thank you for believing in me. You taught me how to love myself the way that God loves me. You taught me how to love others like they are my brothers and sisters, the way that God intended us to love each other. Whenever there was a time that I didn't believe in myself, you were there to believe enough for the both of us, and you still do. When I am having the worst week of my life, and all I want to do is cry, I know I can turn to you. I knew that then, and I love that I know that even now.

Thank you for picking up where we left off. When we didn't see each other for a long period of time, we still picked up right where we left off. It was as if we were never apart. You know that there is a special type of bond when we can just make our way back into each other's lives when we have been apart for so long, and I thank God for giving me that bond with you.

Thank you for making me part of your new family. Even though we don't live together anymore, you have still made me a part of your new family, and I love you all so much. I love that I get to have nieces and nephews because of you and I love that you and your husband are still my big brother and sister. Even though our lives are different, the sisterly love that we have is not.

Thank you for being my sister.

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I'm fine. This is my natural face.

1. Strangers have told you "Smile!" on regular occasions

2. The first thing people say to you is "Are you okay?"

3. Dates have texted you asking if they bored you

4. Or, they tell you they don't want to go out again because you didn't seem interested

5. People question your level of comfort in any given situation

6. Friends have said, "When I first met you, I thought you didn't like me." and were totally serious about it

7. Jokes don't land well because people can't tell if you're serious or not

8. You've been told customer service isn't for you because you never smile

9. In fact, in your yearly review, your manager always writes to smile more under "room for improvement"

10. You hate when people have their cameras out taking candids

11. Even when you smile for a photograph it looks like either A) you're trying too hard or B) you're the Mona Lisa

12. Things can even get a little awkward when you smile

13. You regularly are told "I'm never sure how you feel about things"

14. You've scared strangers on the train/bus/sidewalk with your death glares-- even though they're unintentional and you're not really looking at them

15. Christmas and birthdays are hard because you have to figure out how to look like you're pleased with all your gifts even when you are

16. People frequently tell you you're intimidating

17. Friends stop inviting you to things because they think you don't like going

18. Your parents have RBF (it's definitely genetic. Thanks, Mom).

No matter how old you are.

1. Build a snowman

2. Start a snowball fight

3. Build a fort

4. Binge-watch Netflix

4. Look out the window

5. Grab coffee with a friend

6. Complete school or office work

7. Sleep

8. Read a book

9. Bake cookies

10. Drink hot cocoa

11. Go ice skating

12. Take a Walk

"I don't want to do things. I want to not do things."

1. When you look at the syllabus and realize there are only three weeks of the semester left; even though the first day was LITERALLY yesterday.

2. You look at your grades and realize they probably aren't as high as they should be, which is a terrifying realization.

3. When you think to yourself at night, "tomorrow, I will wake up early and go to the library ALL day, and, hell, maybe after I'll go to the gym for a little bit, just to push myself that extra mile."

4. Tomorrow actually comes. The inevitable and overpowering sense of procrastination is too strong to overcome.

5. But you DO end up going to the library. Not all day though, but still, a while. But no, you do not go to the gym. Still, you made an effort, so you decide to treat yo' self.

6. When you realize you need to schedule a meeting with your adviser because you need to sign up for classes next semester. But you also realize that since you waited until the last minute, you're going to get stuck with all of the crappy classes.

7. When you low-key try to slip into conversation with your professors that you need extra credit because you're that desperate.

8. When it's already the third time you've seen your adviser in two days because you have no damn clue what you're doing and need all the help you can get.

9. When you apply for a job associated with your major even though you have no experience, but you just want to dive headfirst into the deep end of adulthood and get it over with.

The world is not always sunshine and rainbows, and you do not have to be, either.

It would be so much easier to just pay someone to do it for you

1. Figuring out when to start

2. Searching through list after list to get everything you need

3. Shopping for deals

4. Getting bins to put everything in

5. Figuring what you can’t live without

6. Going through clothes to find what you need

7. Finding out your siblings took something from you

8. Fighting with your parents.

9. Trying to plan things with your roommate

10. The fear of forgetting something

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