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An Open Letter To Your Junior Boyfriend

You only met two weeks ago, yet now both of you are dating?

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An Open Letter To Your Junior Boyfriend
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Dear friend's boyfriend,

You met my freshman friend two weeks ago and spoke to her for exactly two days. It was in those two days that she fell for you, and I somehow lost her as a close friend. All my friend would talk about was you and how amazing you are. Then I hear the next morning from someone else that you two are apparently now dating. I didn't hear it from her, or you...nope, I heard it from some random person. You started sitting with us at lunch, and I was okay with that at first because you were funny. Then you and my friend started to get really close to each other, like really close, physically. She would sit in your lap when you would "man-spread", you would look directly at her boobs, you'd kiss her or touch her butt. This was all during lunch in front of three other people. One person left our lunch group because the two of you are so gross with your PDA.

The thing is, I didn't like you to begin with mainly because of the group you hung out with. You hung out with, and still, do hang out with a group of teens who make terrible choices. These teens do drugs, vape in the bathroom, drink alcohol and make out in the mornings before school. These people have changed many of my close friends into people I don't even know. One of my friends used to have high A's in advanced classes when she was a freshman, then she started hanging out with your group and got suspended for drinking and bringing alcohol to school. This is the kind of group that you, a Junior, are bringing my freshman friend into.

I already know that you two have done some stuff though, at least my friend has told me that. I fear for my friend's safety like any concerned friend would be. I don't want her to get into trouble or fall in with the wrong group. I don't want her to get hurt or suspended for something stupid. I trust my friend, and I know she is so smart, but I don't know what she'd do to keep a boyfriend.

Please stop touching my friend, tone down on the PDA (I know you two really love each other, but I don't need to see that), and do not get my friend in trouble by doing drugs or drinking.

Sincerely,

A Concerned Friend

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