An Open Letter To The Guy Who Opened My Heart To Love | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

An Open Letter To The Guy Who Opened My Heart To Love

It's easy to believe all guys are the same, but there's always that one who shows you there are good guys still out there.

2882
An Open Letter To The Guy Who Opened My Heart To Love
Pinterest

On "Wizards of Waverly Place," Teresa (the mom) says to Alex (her daughter), "So think of it this way: you're just one broken heart closer to a happily ever after." I always kept this quote on my phone because it gave me hope. It gave me hope that one day I would find my happily ever after.

Little did I know that all of the guys who hurt me were the reason I was afraid to allow my happily ever after to find me. I was scared and in constant worry that you would be just like the rest of the guys. I had sheltered my heart so much that I wouldn't allow my heart to open up to love.

It is so easy to believe all guys are the same. It is easy to believe because that is my way of protecting myself from being hurt again. Even with never dating before I knew being single would be a lot easier because I had trust in myself and that was all I needed.

Then you came along. I remember saying that we would be better off as just friends for awhile, but that didn't stop you one bit. I was afraid of you because you seemed like an amazing guy; yet I was waiting for the day you would break my heart. Only did I realize by pushing you away I was only breaking my heart instead.

However, you stayed persistent and kept pulling me out of my comfort zone little by little. It seemed like you were extending your hand to me and telling me to trust you. I don't know when and I don't know how, but I took a hold of your hand. Soon my heart was welcoming the thought of love.

Sometimes it is easy to bottle up my emotions and tell everyone I am fine, but you were the first one to see past that facade. I've never liked the thought of opening up my emotions to anyone, yet I have learned to talk to you about anything and everything. I never thought I would pinky promise someone to always say what's on my mind whenever I get quiet. Nor did I believe I would find someone who I wanted to be the first person to know whenever something amazing has happened to me.

I don't feel ashamed of my body whenever I'm with you, and I definitely don't feel ashamed to act myself around you. I'm free to be me and I'm learning to love my body.

Thank you. Thank you for showing me what it's like to love and be loved. Thank you for not giving up on me despite our frustrations on days that aren't always the best. You have taught me how to lean on someone when I'm at my lowest and need a shoulder to cry on. You have also taught me to fight and never give up on something or someone that I love.

Thank you for opening my heart to love, and most importantly thank you for being my happily ever after.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Lifestyle

10 Signs You Work In A Restaurant

There's always chaos in the restaurant business.

656
10 Signs You Work In A Restaurant
Brisanis

Working in the restaurant industry is possibly the most fundamentally challenging occupation I have ever experienced when it comes to hospitality and customer service. When you go to a five-star restaurant you expect the time of your life, a two hour getaway, a walk through another time period (rustic Italy, France, Spain, etc), or simply a honeymoon undergo. What you don't see are the behind the scenes scut work: carrying trays, polishing glassware and silverware, kitchen chaos, the list is endless. Now, I'm not saying being a host, server, or bartender is the worst thing in the whole wide world, there are definitely worse things. But the fact of the matter is that it isn't always sunshine and rainbows. In the two years that I have spent in restaurant and customer service, I have spoken my share of expletives, yelled at kitchen staff, and dealt with not-so-happy guests. It isn't easy to keep a bright and shiny smile on your face when all you want to do is choke every person who walks near you. Anyone who has spent even two weeks working in a restaurant understands the rigor and stress that comes with it. Restaurant culture is a tiny world in and of itself that operates on its own principles and creates its own society. It even has its own language. The sayings "runner", "corner", and "on a bus" wouldn't make sense to anyone otherwise. My mother and I both work in a restaurant and the best advice I can give someone going out to eat is to treat us like people. Yes...believe it or not we are people, people. Say "please" and "thank you", or stack your cleared plates before a busser gets to the table. Trust me, the gesture goes a lot farther than you may think.

So, if you work in a restaurant, you can relate with the following points. If not, check out how the brain of a restaurant service (or any customer service) worker actually works. See if you can identify any crazy weird habits your friends have a tendency to partake in.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

11 Things I Learned My Freshman Year of College

Not everything you learn in college can be found in a textbook.

489
Breanna Vogel
Breanna Vogel

One of the scariest things we will ever face in our life is going to college. Many of us move away to a new town, join new organizations, and make new friends. We are expected to study, have a social life, relationships, maybe work, and be healthy. It seems pretty easy to do, and in high school all we wanted to do was graduate and move on to this next chapter of our lives. If you are in high school, here are some things that you can learn from before you get to college. If you have already been through your freshman year of college, hopefully you can relate to the things I have learned in college.

Keep Reading...Show less
how to get away with murder
Tumblr

It's about that time where we are too tired to do anything productive, too cold to leave bed, and too lazy to find a new show to watch so we result to re-runs.

For all of you home-bodies, for all of you cold weather haters, here are my suggestions for this holiday break. Let the binging begin!

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

12 Long-Term Relationship Milestones

You've got a keeper if you've made it to any of these milestones.

836
couple on the beach
Pexels

You've been together for so long. It's great. And as the time spent in your relationship grows, you hit certain milestones where you know it's real. These can be make-or-break moments, or just little things where you finally realize that you're both doing it. Everybody hits these milestones, no matter how long it takes; they're inevitable.

You know you've made it when you hit these long-term relationship milestones.

Keep Reading...Show less
10 Of The Best Shows To Binge Watch Over Winter Break

As the semester is coming to an end, most of us are going to have more free time on our hands. This calls for binge watching a new show on Netflix and really using this break to relax from the stress of school. Here are some of the best shows on Netflix that you should be watching.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments