Dear heartbroken girls,

Trust me, I know exactly how you feel right now. We've all been there done that and I know right now it seems like it won't ever get better, it will get better and I can promise you that.

Your first heartbreak will always be your worst, this is the one that sets you up for a lifetime of happiness or a lifetime of sadness. One thing you need to learn, do not let this breakup define you, use it as a guide in your future relationships. Take everything that went wrong this time and change it around for your next relationship.

It is not going to be easy.

For the first few weeks, it is going to appear as if nothing will ever change and you're going to be unhappy for the rest of your life, but don't you worry. It will soon get better

It is going to be a lot of sad songs, pushing your friends away and crying until you can no longer breath. It is going to feel like it's taking over your life.

Ladies, I promise that once you give up and let that sadness take over, you have officially lost the fight. You need to pick your head up and keep fighting, as much as it's going to pain you because all you want to do is lay down and cry.

You're better than that. You're a smart, intelligent girl with a whole lot to offer, so why are you going to let some immature boy try and take that away from you? It's not your fault that he failed to realize your worth and your beauty.

You deserve someone who is going to look at you like you're the only girl in the world and love you with every bone in his body. You deserve a man who isn't afraid to show you off in front of his friends and family because he understands your worth and beauty and appreciates it. Never settle for less.

NEVER let an immature boy take anything away from you, he does not deserve you and I promise that as soon as you realize that you're one hell of a woman and that no man can define you, he is going to miss you, but you're going to be too happy to care.

After a year, you're going to understand that everything your mom told you and that everything I am telling you right now is true. You're beautiful and he did not deserve you.

Understand that you're a priceless diamond, and that no matter what, we will always be here for you, every step of the way.

Sincerely, the healed ones.