Everyone knows the stereotypes about Valentines Day that say "men always have to go broke buying presents," or that they "have to shower their girlfriend with the most expensive gifts". It's that time of year again, and I thought it might be helpful to clear things up about how women actually feel about Valentines Day.

First off, the day doesn't have to revolve around us ladies. Its more fun to do something we both enjoy so that one of us isn't miserable the whole time. "If you're happy, I'm happy."

Yes, we like gifts, but we really don't want you to go broke shopping for us. Sometimes it's better to exchange small, meaningful gifts, rather than just spoiling one another.

Going out to dinner is always nice, but remember that restaurants get crowded on Valentines Day. If you don't want to deal with the stress of waiting for a table, it's totally cool to just order in and have a relaxing movie night at home.

Flowers are a SUPER sweet gesture, but unfortunately they die after a week and it's kind of depressing. We do like them, just don't spend a ton of money on them.

Candy and chocolate are great, but, similar to the flowers, you don't have to go overboard with it. Don't go out and buy a giant expensive heart-shaped box of chocolates with gross fillings. We probably won't eat half of it. Instead, find out what kind of candy we like, and you can look for Valentines Day themed packages at the store.

As far as cards go? Its way sweeter to write us a cute letter or note. It doesn't have to be a book, just something that says you care. Waking up to a short little valentine letter will make our day. Plus, it'll be one less thing you have to buy at the store.

And the giant teddy bears are totally cool and all, but unless it has its own room, it might not fit in the house. We know you don't want it to take your spot in the bed.

I also just want to clear it up that we ladies aren't asking for EVERYTHING on this list. We just want our significant other to know that Valentines Day really doesn't have to be so stressful and expensive! There are so many ways to celebrate and show how much you care without breaking the bank!