Dear Pops,
I knew that when I got this job, I would have to take this opportunity during Father's day. I knew I needed to tell you that I'm thankful for you and I needed to just thank you for everything you've done for me in my life. So I will take these next couple of minutes to tell you what I just want you to know.
I want you to know that I'm thankful for every single moment of support whether it'd be on the wrestling mat or in the classroom or whatever have you. I want you to know that I'm thankful for every moment that you ever told me that I could do something I set my mind to. Even on the days when I didn't believe that statement was true, I want you to know that the fact you believed in me and continue to believe in me meant the world, I want you to know that I'm thankful for everywhere you drove me, such as wrestling tournaments and hanging out with friends. I want to thank you for staying in the stands for hours to watch me compete. I want to thank you for pushing me to be the best possible version of myself. I want to thank you for getting me motivated to go after my dreams, even on the days when they seem like simple pipe dreams.
Not a lot of people had quite the support system that I have gotten in my life, and one of my greatest supporters and one of my greatest fans has always been my father. I'm very lucky to be able to call you my Dad and a lot of people would agree. Truth be told, if I was to thank you for every single thing you've done for me, five hundred words could never cover that. You've done more as a father than any son could possibly ask for and I truly hope one day I can just earn enough money to get you that Jeep Wrangler you've been talking about, and maybe buy you a nice house. I just want you to know that one day, I will pay you back for everything.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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