Lisa Wade's Response To Timothy Piazza's Death Again Stereotypes Greek Life | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

Lisa Wade's Response To Timothy Piazza's Death Again Stereotypes Greek Life

Why this "my way or highway" approach to resolve our social problems is flawed.

47
Lisa Wade's Response To Timothy Piazza's Death Again Stereotypes Greek Life
Pixabay

Dear Dr. Lisa Wade,

I recently read your piece in Time Magazine, "Why Colleges Should Get Rid of Fraternities For Good," calling for the complete & permanent eradication of Greek Life everywhere after the Tim Piazza incident at PSU. Although cultural changes are necessary to ensure our students' safety, this proposal to completely eradicate Greek Life is only one poorly thought-out solution. The logic is based mostly on fraternity stereotypes among other impulsive assumptions you imply.

First, you dismiss the possibility of reform because "fraternities have been synonymous with risk-taking and defiance from their very inception." Although the concept of fraternities may have dubious origins as you point out, more rules have been established among other measures taken to prevent chaos associated with Greek Life activities. Organizations must comply to obtain official recognition. It's also disturbing to assume all social fraternities do nothing but party & engage in risky actions. Like you and me, Greek Life members are unique human beings. The chances of all members being destructive and rebellious are highly unlikely.

Second, you continue along this path; I'm sure some organizations were created for malicious intentions, but not all fraternities "are a brotherhood born in mutiny and forged in the fire of rebellion..." as you say. For instance, Alpha Epsilon Pi is a Jewish-principled organization that began after Charles Moskowitz asked a fraternity at NYU whether his Jewish friends could pledge with him. When that other fraternity answered "no," Moskowitz rejected his bid and started AEPi. Furthermore, Pi Lambda Phi was started by men who were rejected from Yale for racial & religious reasons. I'll stop this long list here. Why then, should they be grouped with stereotypical fraternities?

Third, when you argue agreeing "to the reasonable demands of outsiders... would do such violence to their legacies [and] alter their organizations beyond recognition," do you mean Greek Life dominates every school that has it? It may interest you to know that although Greek Life may be highly popular at schools like PSU, it lacks that popularity at other schools. At Hofstra University, my school, Greek Life isn't seen as necessary to enjoy yourself, even though it's available to those who want it. Much more important criteria like academics are why most students select their schools. I hereby caution you against supposing fraternities control every campus.

Fourth, you claim there will be future Tim Piazza's "unless we end Greek Life for good." The premonition that terminating Greek Life will end hazing, drug abuse, sexual assault or other issues associated with fraternities is dangerous; that's like presuming without wars, nobody would die. Also, these issues present themselves outside the context of Greek Life and have done so for centuries. Hazing, for one, also plagues sports teams, gangs and even the military. Then there's the Baylor sexual assault scandal where football, not Greek Life, was wrongfully prioritized above people's safety. All these issues are too complex for such a simple solution as you proposed. This notion that without fraternities, everything else will fix itself is irrational.

Before I conclude Dr. Wade, I acquiesce to your well-intended piece in these respects. Concerning the fraternity brothers involved with Tim Piazza, they need to face justice for their actions. Many widespread social issues on campuses are often enabled by fraternities and sororities. While most Greek organizations accomplish amazing philanthropic goals, that shouldn't excuse transgressions. Therefore, we need to stop tolerating sexual assault, hazing, prejudice, destructive decisions among other behaviors and start condemning them. Students must feel empowered to act when things go awry, which can require more education on these issues. Lastly, the troublesome philosophy of profits over safety needs to end everywhere.

Having said that, your logic is still faulty; it's based on stereotypes and capricious assumptions. You cited only one incident, yet put the whole Greek Community under negative umbrellas. You also figured that (1) fraternities have dominant control at all schools, (2) all the brothers do is party & (3) they're all unwilling to reform. Perhaps many of them enable social problems; however, there are other prominent sources of enablement, perhaps in the media or in some families & upbringings. Finally, as despicable as the Beta Theta Pi brothers' decisions were, is it really beneficial to punish millions of students over 18+ people's choices?

Dr. Wade, I know it's frustrating to watch the same issues take tragic tolls on us. But your proposal isn't well-thought out. After PSU reacted with stringent Greek rules, I imagine other schools will follow suit. While fraternities remain though, maybe these organizations, in and of themselves, aren't the root of all college problems.

Sincerely,

A G.D.I.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
friends
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

If I have learned one thing in my lifetime, it is that friends are a privilege. No one is required to give you their company and yet there is some sort of shared connection that keeps you together. And from that friendship, you may even find yourself lucky enough to have a few more friends, thus forming a group. Here are just a few signs that prove your current friend group is the ultimate friend group.

Keep Reading...Show less
ross and monica
FanPop

When it comes to television, there’s very few sets of on-screen siblings that a lot of us can relate to. Only those who have grown up with siblings knows what it feels like to fight, prank, and love a sibling. Ross and Monica Geller were definitely overbearing and overshared some things through the series of "Friends," but they captured perfectly what real siblings feel in real life. Some of their antics were funny, some were a little weird but all of them are completely relatable to brothers and sisters everywhere.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Types Of Sorority Girls

Who really makes up your chapter...

2096
Sorority Girls
Owl Eyes Magazine

College is a great place to meet people, especially through Greek life. If you look closely at sororities, you'll quickly see there are many different types of girls you will meet.

1. The Legacy.

Her sister was a member, her mom was a member, all of her aunts were members, and her grandma was a member. She has been waiting her whole life to wear these letters and cried hysterically on bid day. Although she can act entitled at times, you can bet she is one of the most enthusiastic sisters.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

10 Reasons Why Life Is Better In The Summertime

Winter blues got you down? Summer is just around the corner!

1763
coconut tree near shore within mountain range
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

Every kid in college and/or high school dreams of summer the moment they walk through the door on the first day back in September. It becomes harder and harder to focus in classes and while doing assignments as the days get closer. The winter has been lagging, the days are short and dark, and no one is quite themselves due to lack of energy and sunlight. Let's face it: life is ten times better in the summertime.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Things That Describe You and Your College Friends

The craziest, funniest, and most unforgettable college memories are impossible to create without an amazing group of friends.

1388
College Friends
Marina Lombardi

1. You'll never run out of clothes when you have at least four closets to choose from.

2. You embrace and encourage each other’s horrible, yet remarkable dance moves.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments