To My Big's Boyfriend,

When I first met you, I was incredibly unsure about you. Were you good enough for my amazing Big or were you just another dumb boy that was going to break her heart? Were you actually going to stick with her or leave as soon as things started to get serious? Were you worthy enough to even stand next to her? Since you started dating my Big, we have become a little family and I am so grateful for it and you.

Thank you for making my Big happy.

I don't think you know just how happy you make her. Whenever your name is brought up in conversation her eyes light up in a way they never did before. I love asking her how things are with you because she gets so happy and excited just talking about you. If Big's happy, Little's happy. And you treat her so well. My Big is one of the most incredible people I know. She's beautiful and strong and confident. She deserves the absolute best and you give her that.

Thank you for letting me crash your dates when I need my Big.

There were multiple nights where all of my friends bailed out on dinner and you let me crash your date. You never made me feel bad or awkward about it. It was like you actually wanted me there even though I'm sure there were some nights you just wanted some time alone with your girlfriend. There was even that one day where everything was going wrong and all I wanted was to cuddle with my Big but you were hanging out with her up in the sorority suite. When I walked in the door, tears streaming down my face, you handed me a glass of water and gave us space. You respect that sometimes I need my Big and you give her to me, no questions asked. That's really special and I appreciate it more than you know.

Thank you for adopting me as your Lady Little.

There isn't a written rule that says when you start dating a sorority girl her Little becomes your Little but you did it anyway. I know that I'm not just an annoying gnat in your life that just won't go away, I'm your Lady Little. When I was having boy and friend problems you sat with me for hours and just listened. You gave me advice and told me that everything was going to be okay, and it was. You stand up for me when people talk badly about me, even if I was in the wrong and disappointed you. It's nice to know that even when I screw up, I'll still have you and my Big loving and rooting for me.

Thank you for constantly taking care of my Big and me. You really are the best Man Big around.

With Love,

Your Double L

P.S. This doesn't mean if you break her heart I'm going to let you off the hook.