The Keys To Finding Yourself | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

The Keys To Finding Yourself

Hint: It's hard.

32
The Keys To Finding Yourself
deviantart.net

One of the herculean tasks of young adulthood, many will say, is finding yourself. In the TV show, "Avatar: The Last Airbender," the young Prince Zuko goes through such an intense identity crisis that who he has been and who he sees himself becoming is a war against each other, making him feverish and delusional. In the midst of his crisis, his wise mentor, Iroh, tells him, “It’s time for you to look inward and ask yourself the big question: Who are you, and what do you want?”

While identity and life purpose are undeniably important, I think Iroh’s advice is not appropriate for all young people, or even most young people. Zuko suffered all kinds of pressures and traumas as a child, and they literally scarred him for life. His father stripped him of honor and banished him for committing an honest, minor mistake.

Much of the TV show focuses on Zuko’s quest to regain his honor and his father’s love by capturing the Avatar, who poses a threat to his father’s rule.

Does this remind you of your own life? I thought not.

Most of the time, our lives are not in upheaval, and we don’t have someone directing every move. In fact, as they grow older, many young people begin to wish for someone to tell them what to do with their lives. They have thought hard about it, explored various interests, changed majors 11 times and traveled the world, but they still can’t find who they are or what they want.

Eventually, you become OK with it.

You learn that it’s something to be solved and discovered your whole life. It’s hard. If the sapling could imagine itself growing over years and years to become a towering oak, it would spend all its energy imagining and none of it actually growing. Who you are and what you are supposed to do are not static; they change and grow and feel different at different times.

The key is not to give up. Try things. Fail at things. Find little successes. Just keep going!

The other key (you’ll have a ring full of keys by the time you’re done here) is to ask for help. Find people you can really confide in without fear of judgment. Zuko would have crashed and burned a hundred times throughout "Avatar" without the guidance and counsel of Iroh.

One last thought: Don’t be afraid to be ordinary. You don’t have to save the whales or cure cancer or even travel the world to have a meaningful life. I know a lot of young people shy away from marriage or buying a house or other traditional, conventional steps into adulthood.

Certainly don’t do any of these things just because they’re expected of you, but neither should you ignore the joys present in a peaceful, ordinary life. Iroh says somewhere else in the show, “There’s nothing wrong with a life of peace and prosperity.”

If Iroh says it, it must be true!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

70172
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

3816
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less
Health and Wellness

10 Hygiene Tips For All College Athletes

College athletes, it's time we talk about sports hygiene.

7895
Woman doing pull-ups on bars with sun shining behind her.

I got a request to talk about college athletes hygiene so here it is.

College athletes, I get it, you are busy! From class, to morning workouts, to study table, to practice, and more. But that does not excuse the fact that your hygiene comes first! Here are some tips when it comes to taking care of your self.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments