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Why It's OK To Feel Overwhelmed In College

Being Busy is Better Than You Think

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Why It's OK To Feel Overwhelmed In College
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College is one of the most unique times of our lives. Anyone who has been fortunate enough to go would most likely be able to attest to the authenticity that it can provide, but to most, college is not just about the process of going to classes, taking tests, studying, finishing homework, studying, taking tests, writing essays, preparing for finals, and of course more studying. Many strive to obtain a job or perhaps an internship. Career fairs, internship fairs, networking, and social media workshops are just a few of the resources that are offered to students in order to make these ideas and dreams a reality.

But it doesn't stop there. Clubs, organizations, committees, and research teams consume time that distract you from the going to classes, taking tests, studying, finishing homework and the rest of the cycle of the educational curriculum. As a member of the Greek community myself, I know that being part of a fraternal bond is a huge commitment and sacrifice of time that I choose to make each and every day. What with all the meetings, member development, philanthropies, and community service that we commit ourselves to, it can be a bit taxing.

Does everything stated above demanding? Does it make you exhausted just reading it? We are still not done yet. Between all of these external factors, you still have to make time to be able to be yourself. Whether that takes on the transformation of going to the gym, hanging out with friends on and off-campus, or even exploring the various party scenes, you must be able to still have fun and do what ultimately makes you happy.

I understand how this can seem overwhelming. The classic dilemma of too much to do and never enough time to accomplish what you need. But that's okay. It is nice to feel busy. It is good to be involved. It's not even for something to put on a resume. It is for the experience of it all. This is the best time of your life. You get a chance to find out who you are. You can reinvent yourself. You can find your true calling. At the end of my senior year of high school, I lamented the fact that I did not accomplish all that I want to. I did not maximize my full potential. The beauty about college is that you can define what your future is. It is not always easy. But anything worth doing is worth doing well. I want to be able to look back on my college experience without regrets and with the knowledge that I helped paved the way for my future success. I only hope you heed my advice and do the same.

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