Hard working people are incredibly attractive. I cannot relate to someone who lives off their parents or has a bad work ethic. I repeal those individuals. This is why relationships are difficult. Many people in their twenties live recklessly without a single plan about the future. They will spend their weekly or biweekly paycheck on a luxury bag, a trip to New York, or a dish at a five-star restaurant.

While I am here counting and wrapping coins in the middle of my small bedroom to pay for gas or maintenance for my car. So, when my options for men are incredibly limited, it is hard for me to distinguish the lazy ones from the hard working ones. It is not as though the lazy people wear or hold a sign stating that they are fake and do not know the value of hard work.

I did meet someone who is my equal in many ways. My boyfriend appreciates the fact that I do not blow my entire life savings in a weekend over something that will lower itself to nothing as time goes on. He is someone who is willing to work opposite shifts from me to pay his bills. Even though it interferes with us spending time together, we look forward toward our day offs to grow closer as a couple. Our different work shifts actually bring us closer together.

Why? Because it makes us long for that one day that we can be completely lazy together. If anyone is having couple issues, they should definitely try this. I find myself waiting up for him till nine at night and hopelessly waiting for him to get situated at home so we can watch long hours of Netflix together.

I thought being with someone who works hard would be difficult at times. But, on the contrary, it 's not hard in the slightest. We get along better this way. Our values and beliefs are in sync. He works hard to pay for his college education and our future vacation. Likewise, I work hard to pay off bills, tuition, and my car loan. This is not likely for most people my age.

Perhaps, I just got lucky this time around. Overall, I think the meaning behind hard work just shows the moral character of the individual. If they are hard working, they will eventually be a good partner in life. They will be reliable and someone you can lean on when times get hard.