What My Niece Needs To Know While She's Growing Up
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What My Niece Needs To Know While She's Growing Up

It is crazy to me that you have not a care in the world and in a few short years, you will start becoming the person you were meant to be.

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What My Niece Needs To Know While She's Growing Up
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Dear My Niece,

Hey you! Right now you are sitting next to me eating pancakes looking cute as ever. I can't help but think that some point in time you will be my age, thinking about life choices, making hard decisions, and just trying to find your way in this world. Right now your biggest concern is eating, pooping, and watching Barney. It is crazy to me that you have not a care in the world and in a few short years, you will start becoming the person you were meant to be.

You talk, but small words & I can not wait for the day you and me can have a full on conversation about the boy you like or the friend that is giving you a difficult time. I can not wait to be your helping hand, your advice giver, and the coolest aunt on the planet. You are a special little girl and you make me laugh like crazy. I know we are going to have a great relationship because you are literally just like me.

I see you growing up whenever I see you and it honestly scares me. I can remember clearly the day you were born. It was one of the best days of my life because someone came into my life that I will always be there for. You can always count on me to be with you through it all. As I am writing this, you are sticking out your tongue at me laughing because you think it is absolutely hilarious. I live for these moments because later on, you won't think everything is funny anymore (not to put a damper on things, but it is true.)

If something happens in your life that you feel is going to have your world come crashing down, do not be afraid to come to your aunt. I will always be there for you no matter what. I am there to be your shoulder to cry on, your protector, and the one that can give you candy even when your mom says no. I just want you to know that when you get older, you are going to face obstacles that are going to be harder than you can imagine. I know you will be able to get through it. You are such a tough cookie, you are sassy, and you are definitely something else.

I hope you continue to be this carefree girl with a little bit of sassiness because you are beautiful girl! You deserve nothing but the best in this world. Have memories to last a lifetime, be yourself, and do not let anyone take you for granted. Trust me, it is not worth it. You can always come to me with anything and everything. I went through it all, so I can help you with any issues you face during your journey of growing up.

I hope that when you are my age, you can read this letter and know that everything will be okay. Just remember you have a family that loves you and supports you through everything. I love you so much and so does everyone else.

Good luck!

Love, Auntie Nina

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