The year 2016 has come to an end and it’s about time. During the year saying “a lot happened” would be an understatement. Because I am sure we are all well-aware of what went on during the year. There were multiple celebrity deaths, many attacks, and of course let’s not forget how the United States elected an imbecile for President. (I’m not even going to say the name because it still makes me sick to my stomach). While I got over the President-elect by Mid-November I guarantee that the moment “IT” is sworn into office that feeling I felt in the pit of my stomach on November 7th will come again. And for all, I know it probably won’t go away until those four years are completed. Hopefully, America will have opened their eyes and won’t make the same mistake. But let’s just take it one year at a time starting with 2017.

I think it’s fair to say that 2016 gave a lot of people hell. Then again, some could argue that 2016 might have been a great year for them. And if it was, that’s GREAT. But all in all, I think the majority of us are glad that 2016 has ended. We all welcomed 2016 with joy and happiness like we always do for each year. Little did we know that this year would be filled with so many emotions and “issues.” Here’s the thing, we never what tomorrow holds, or next month, or next year for that matter and this year just started. I mean for all we know 2017 could be even worse than 2016 (although I highly doubt that). The point is, we take every day one step at a time and hope for the best. And also make the best of everything.

I’ve only discussed a small pinch of what went on during the year of 2016. If I was actually to write down the amount of things that occurred during that year, it would seem that this article would be never ending. So I’ll just save you from the drama and cut it short. Besides, I think since the year is over no one really wants to look back on it. So why should I remind you all of it? Enough of 2016 and let’s focus on the new year.

We all have such high hopes and expectations for when the new year rolls around. Hence why everyone was glad 2016 ended. That year sure knew how to crush almost every good thing that occurred or canceling them out. The new year is supposed to be “a new beginning” or a start of something different. Whether it’s a new semester, or the start of a relationship of sort or something special. Either way, when the new year rolls around we all want to wish each other happiness and hopes to God we get it.

Along with new beginnings there come the resolutions that are made as the new year rolls around. Now, of course, there are the most common ones we all hear and then some that are pretty fascinating. "New Year, New Me." What’s that even supposed to mean? What is it about yourself that you wish to change, or hope to achieve. Because we all know it’s a new year, but the “new me” part is what I find interesting. I get it, you probably want to change a few things about yourself or maybe things around you for the better. Shouldn't we be more specific in what you want to do or change? But why do you feel the need to wait for the new year to roll in to set that goal? Is the new year like a trigger for changes to be made? Not that change is a bad thing. I just find it funny that some people wait for the new year to roll around to start making changes in their life. Like getting fit, or start going to the gym, another common resolution that’s made, and most of the time dropped by the time the month of March rolls around.

If you want to change yourself for the better, whether it’s for yourself, your health or just in general you shouldn’t feel the need to wait for a new year to come along to start setting these goals. There isn’t special magic dust that gets poured on people when the ball drops or when the clock strikes midnight. You shouldn’t feel the need for a new year to roll around to start something new. Just start it. While the new year rolling in does give people a lot of encouragement to start something, you shouldn’t wait on it. But I have to admit the new year rolling in sometimes does encourage people to take a step out their comfort zone.

Nonetheless, I find resolutions to be overrated. Because most of the time you're probably not gonna stick through it. I have yet to meet someone that has. But if you’re one of them, props to you! I’m not saying making a resolution is dumb, but if you’re not going to really pull through, you might as well make a different resolution. One you can stick to. Or not make one at all. I find not making one a lot easier. Then again, you can always make a very simple one. One that’s straightforward and easy to stick to it. My favorite people are the ones who say “this year I’m not going to make a resolution because I never stick to it.” But when you think about it. You kinda are making a resolution. A resolution to not make one. But hey, if it makes your life easier then have at it.

As I think about how the year 2016 flew by along with everything that came along with it. I hope that 2017 will be a much “lighter” year on us all.

So Dear 2017,

You brought everyone joy as you came along. We're hoping and wishing for joy and happiness for everyone to stick throughout the year. For the start of new things and maybe even an end (like school #ClassOf2017). I’m not going to say we are expecting a lot, but I’m sure you can take a hint. 2017 we are counting on you. (No pressure). So please don’t let us down because if you do we can’t wait until you leave even though you just started. But will be counting down those days until your departure. Just like we did with 2016.

2016 you had no chill whatsoever. Goodbye and never come back.

I hope the new year brings you happiness and joy and many other positive things. Strive for best and achieve your goals! But don’t let a new year hold you back from starting.

Happy New Year To You And Your Families