Often times we pinpoint flaws in those around us. It’s human nature to notice such defects in other humans and it’s also extremely hard to avoid this judgment. In the process of observing other’s flaws, we often forget that we ourselves also have several flaws. With the arrival of 2016, you may have already begun progressing towards your new years resolutions. Allow me to add an additional resolution for the rest of the year. Acknowledge YOUR flaws and work towards changing those aspects of yourself that you deem undesirable. Everyone has flaws, yes, but not everyone works towards ridding themselves of them. This will not only help you become a better person, but it will also give you satisfaction with your personality.

In my 19 years of existence, I am guilty of being extremely stubborn. Whether it’s an inherited flaw or just me justifying my actions as a result of the stubbornness, it’s something that I’d like to get rid of. I’ve always believed that as long as I’m not committing a grave sin or going against my morals and values, I should be allowed to do whatever it is that my little heart desires. I overlooked the fact that this may disappoint my friends or family, both of which are very important aspects of my life. Another flaw I’d like to improve on is how I overreact in situations. Whether this be arguing with a friend for what I believe is right or disobeying my parents if I believe that they are not being understanding of my situation, a calmer reaction is what I wish to achieve. One last thing that I strongly encourage every individual to reconsider is how he or she prioritizes things and people. This includes their family, friends, religion and events in their life. Often times one of these categories outweighs the other when in reality it’s important to balance your time. I tend to prioritize my friends and have recently come to a realization that I need to reconsider my decisions. Sometimes, family needs priority over friends.

I’ve recognized the flaws within me and am attempting to change myself this year. Think about the aspects of your life, your mind, and your heart that make you unhappy with yourself. Once you decide to rid yourself of these undesirable flaws, you’ll be much more satisfied with yourself. People are in denial that there is something wrong with the way that they are. However, deep down you know that there is something about you that you strongly dislike. You may also believe that it’s difficult to remove these unwanted traits. Difficult, yes, but impossible? No. Make it your resolution to become a better person this year. The “new year, new me” phrase should actually become something for you to live by.