Number 9? I know what you all must be thinking, why would someone write an article about a number, a random number? You're all right 9 is a number, the number between 8 and 10, for some of you your birthdate or lucky number. However, this number is significant to me. It holds meaning and value, and as crazy as it sounds number 9 taught me a valuable lesson.

Unfortunately, life hands us unfair and unjust events that we can't anticipate or prepare for. This past week my community has suffered and continues to grieve the loss of a young, beautiful and intelligent soul. His number was 9. I have never in my life seen a traumatic situation been handled with such grace and bravery. The courage and strength this family possesses has taught me and I hope others such crucial life lessons. I hope that these lessons will aid those in any challenge or difficult time that may arise in their life.

First off forget about the small things. The insignificant things that may bother you for seconds and be forgotten immediately. They don't matter! Put them in the past and carry on with your day. There are so many more important things that no one deserves to get upset and harp over the small ones. Trust me there is so much more to life than a friend who sent a text ending with a period.

Second, be kind and generous. No one deserves to go through life being judged or treated cruelly. Everyone is entitled to dress how they want, talk how they want, preach who they want and at the end of the day we are all human beings. We were all created to be different and those differences should be respected and tolerated. One act of kindness or generosity can go a long way. You never know what someone is going through in their life.

Last and most important enjoy every moment life has to offer! Like I said at times we go through our ups and downs and life is certainly not easy, but try to start and end everyday with a smile. Live, laugh and love! Take a positive approach to a negative situation, as hard as it can be. There is so much opportunity, so much to explore and so much to love in the world. Don't live your life with regrets saying "what if" and just do it. At the end of the day you are in control of your life and can determine the outcome!

I haven't written in quite sometime but this recent tragedy has encouraged and inspired me to share these important life lessons with you all. Live life like number 9! Remember this number as it will have an everlasting impact on me. Be kind, be positive, laugh, smile and enjoy all life has to offer you! Hearts and prayers go out to you sweet boy, but thank you number 9 for the incredible legacy you have left us all with!