The qualities are not listed in any order and this is MY checklist. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing with my list. Everyone has their own idealized wishes.
1. Attractiveness
File:Liam Hemsworth by Gage Skidmore.jpg - Wikimedia CommonsFile:Liam Hemsworth by Gage Skidmore.jpg - Wikimedia CommonsDON'T HATE ME, OKAY? Attractiveness is not the most important thing, but I still place a little bit of importance on it.
2. Taller than me
gray and yellow measuresPhoto by William Warby on UnsplashSticking with the somewhat shallow qualities, I prefer when a guy is taller than me. I just like big, warm hugs. It's comforting.
3. Sense of humor
adult yellow Labrador retriever inside black plastic basinPhoto by Jonathan Daniels on UnsplashI like a guy that can make me smile.
4. Physically affectionate
red Kiss neon signagePhoto by Tim Mossholder on UnsplashI describe myself as a very "cuddly" person. I LOVE hugs, kisses, and cuddles.
5. Patience
10 Time-Wasters In Your Day That Are Actually 100% Worth ItI'm kind of stupid sometimes, so it is very helpful when a guy is patient with me. I have some issues to work through, so they need to be understanding about that.
6. Nice/pretty eyes
close up photo of gray-eyed manPhoto by Quinten de Graaf on UnsplashI want eyes that I could get lost in.
7. In shape
man wearing multicolored shorts while exercising on rope inside white roomPhoto by Victor Freitas on UnsplashSomeone that works out sometimes, not a huge, steroid-taking bodybuilder.
8. Career/Job that I can relate to
white and black now hiring signagePhoto by Free To Use Sounds on UnsplashNow, they don't need to have a big, fancy salary or anything. I just want to be able to understand them when they talk about work. I want to be able to relate to them in that way.
9. Same "big issue" stances
woman in black long sleeve shirt and white cap holding white printer paperPhoto by Vince Fleming on UnsplashWe don't need to agree on everything, but we do need to agree on big issue things.
10. Motivated in life
man wearing white top looking at projector graph screenPhoto by Frank Busch on UnsplashI would go crazy if my significant other just sat around, unmotivated, every day. I need someone that wants something out of life. Someone inspired.
11. Optimistic
woman holding balloonsPhoto by Lidya Nada on UnsplashI don't want someone that is blindly optimistic, but just someone that can help me see the good in the world.
12. Gentle
6. Be gentle with yourself. GiphyI suffer from a bit of PTSD, so I need a man that can be gentle with me.
13. Good with kids
woman holding man and toddler hands during daytimePhoto by Jessica Rockowitz on UnsplashI don't feel the need to biologically have children, but I definitely want to adopt/foster children. I need a man that won't be the dad that my father was.
14. Dog lover
48. PuppiesGiphyThis isn't a requirement, but I have always planned to have dogs in my home.
That concludes my dream boy checklist. Now, if I follow this list, maybe I won't have so many terrible ex boyfriends.
