My boyfriend’s parents are some of my most favorite adults. I find that I’m very lucky to have been accepted into the family of my boyfriend of almost four years, and it’s honestly so nice to have such a loving relationship with them.

I always had a personal mantra that the relationship with my significant other’s family was just as important as the relationship with my significant other, and the fact that I have such a close relationship with them is refreshing.

They treat me as their own and at first, it was a little shocking to me. I had no idea why somebody else’s parents would take such a personal interest in me. Now, I text them on my own accord just because I want to have a one on one conversation with them! I trust these people with things that worry me, confuse me, and cause me anxiety. I share with them my greatest moments I’ve had so far, as well as the hurt I’ve been through.

Having someone to talk to who is more of an adult than me is comforting. Of course, I know I can always talk to my own family, but it’s nice to be able to have more people to discuss things with when you aren’t sure of what to do, especially as a young adult. It never hurts to have too many sources when you are in a predicament, and someone who willingly chooses to listen and help you is a blessing.

These people are so important to me, and I’m grateful to have them in my life every day. My own family not only makes me feel loved, but a second family makes me feel like a good person because they choose to love me.