We all have that one individual that is our person. They are the ones that you turn to when life gets hard and the ones you celebrate with when little victories happen. To me, that person is my boyfriend and I am not sorry for that.
Most people say that your boyfriend should not be a top priority of yours. They say that you should not chase your boyfriend to where he goes. But I think that is all wrong. What is the problem with being best friends with the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
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I know that my boyfriend knows me better than anyone else does. Sometimes, he knows me better than I know myself. He knows my favorite foods and the foods that I will absolutely not touch. He is the one I call when something goes down in the house or I just need to rant. He is the one that I turn to for advice and the one that gets the first call when I am happy.
I do not plan to chase him and set up house wherever he goes. I do not plan to make my life all around him and what he does. I still plan to have my own life and my own career. I just want him to be a part of that and I want to be a part of his.
Many others fight that your world should not revolve around your boyfriend. They say that it is impossible to keep a relationship through the tough times and when you are finding yourself. But I say that is wrong. I say that you are able to find yourself while being with your boyfriend.
My boyfriend has helped me through a lot in my life. He has been by my side when I am faced with trials and he has been there when I have victories. He gives me a shoulder to cry on and lets me rant when I need to. He dances with me when I am happy and is there during my achievements.
I know that I can support myself on my own. I know that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy. But I would ranter not. He is my best friend and I am not sorry for that.
