My Battle With Mental Health Part 9: Therapy | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

My Battle With Mental Health Part 9: Therapy

How does that make you feel?

25
My Battle With Mental Health Part 9: Therapy
The Huffington Post

Experts estimate that over 83 million people suffer from some form of diagnosable mental illness. Some generalize it as anxiety. Some generalize it as depression. Some generalize it as bulls**t. The media romanticizes suicide attempts and self-harm because they make a touching story about someone overcoming struggles by finding “the one” or through some feat of their own strength. But the very real truth is that these conditions are not fun. They are not sexy. They do not come with a tearful confession at just the right moment or a swell of dramatic music when you make a breakthrough. They wound those who have the resources and support to get through them, and they cripple or kill those who don’t. Many people don’t know what mental illness is, or what it looks like. So I guess I’ll have to try to explain it. Listen up.

Therapy is one point that always gets brought up when discussing mental health issues. I think therapy gets a bad rap at times. Everybody knows the stereotypical therapist who makes you lay down on a couch and talk about your feelings. But having been in therapy for years, I can say that’s not really the case. Therapy can take many forms, and with a variety of individuals.

I first started therapy in sixth grade with a therapist named Karen. She was about the polar opposite of what I expected out of a therapist—a young, thirty-something woman with piercings and tattoos, somewhere between hippie and punk-rock. She took therapy notes on a pad of paper and asked be about fourteen times if I wanted to see the notes. I understand she did it to alleviate fears that she was judging me, but I really didn’t give a s**t.

Our first session was fairly routine: getting to know one another, why I was there, etc. The second session was less so. She led off the session falsely accusing me of staring at her breasts the whole first session. She then asked me if I knew how babies were made. I stared at the wall for 45 minutes then left. I would later find out that she began seeking therapy herself shortly thereafter. It was incredibly upsetting at the time, but looking back on it I find it so absurd that I can’t help but laugh.

I continued on in therapy with a counselor named Lynn. She was a sweet older lady who I really connected with and saw for nearly eight years. She saw me through anxiety, panic, high school drama, relationships, everything. She retired last summer. God bless, Lynn.

I’m currently seeing two therapists between home and school, both the kind of people who tell it to me straight and don’t mind me using the word f**k in our sessions.

Ultimately, my experience with therapy has been a good one. Even when things were going well and I didn’t feel that I needed to be seeing someone, it’s nice to have a chunk of time carved out of every week to talk about life. Not just to talk about it, but to talk about it with someone who is trained and licensed to handle those sorts of things.

Now things are a little different, and I feel that I rely on my therapy more. It’s certainly more than just a weekly check-in for me. As I mentioned with medication, I will mention with therapy—I like it. I endorse it. A lot of people think that therapy is a crock of s**t but my therapists can provide me with far more accurate and in-depth advice than “just let me know if you ever need to vent.”

So I’d recommend therapy. I’d recommend therapy to anyone at all. I think it’s a great part of being a healthy and well-balanced person. Not that I’d know what that’s like. But I’m working on it.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

181261
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

8163
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

453156
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

23706
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments