I was raised on the Beatles. We'd put the tape (yes, the tape) in the tape player and dance around the room to A Hard Day's Night or Yellow Submarine. The songs were not overly exploitative or offensive, and they were fun to dance and sing loudly to. Those memories from my childhood are so vivid and it got me wondering... what artists am I going to show my kids?
Now, as a lover of hip-hop and R&B, half of the music I listen to, I wouldn't introduce to my children until they were in their teenage years because of the lyrics. My number one played artist is consistently Chris Brown, but his past actions have gotten him vetoed from my list of music that will be passed down to the next generation. Sorry, Chris. I want to provide a positive image of music for my children, so demeaning lyrics will not cut it.
There are many rap, hip-hop, and R&B artists that write meaningful songs without making racist or sexist comments. These are definitely worthy:
1. Beyoncé
2. J. Cole
3. Eminem
Maybe thinking of a little more rock or alternative style music? Try these artists:
1. Coldplay
2. Linkin Park
3. Red Hot Chili Peppers
4. Fall Out Boy
If you're thinking more along the lines of powerful women and beautiful voices, I'd say you should go for:
1. Adele
2. Ellie Goulding
3. Lana Del ray
More of a country person? Country music can have strong meanings and beautiful lyrics as well:
1. Darius Rucker
2. Tim Mcgraw
3. Eric Church
4. Zac Brown Band
Of course, everyone has different tastes and preferences. While you may not prefer any of these artists, make sure the music you choose to show your children has been a meaningful part of your life.
Passing along important pieces of your life is a way of keeping your spirit alive and active in your children's lives. I will forever remember those days prancing around the house singing, "We all live in a yellow submarine." It is important that every child has an escape through music.