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8 Moments That Confirm He Doesn't Deserve The Double Text

Go ahead and break the rules of texting, but don't break it when he does these things.

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8 Moments That Confirm He Doesn't Deserve The Double Text
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All of us girls have heard for years that we shouldn't double text. That the guy might think we are clingy, annoying, suffocating, or desperate. Communication, for some reason, has developed a list of guidelines in the past several years. Personally, I have never been one for rules, especially when it comes to communication. Apparently, you shouldn't double text. You shouldn't send too long of messages. You shouldn't use too many periods or you look upset. You have to use the correct amount of emojis. The list goes on and on. It's exhausting. Because I just don't usually care enough to follow the rules, I double text quite often. However, there are some instances in which the boy doesn't deserve my double text, or quite honestly, my attention in general. Here are just a handful:

1. He only texts at 2 AM.

I love attention just as much as the next person, but I kind of have to realize he isn't looking for genuine conversation if he texts me at prime booty call time.

2. He acts completely uninterested when I talk about my day.

Some guys tell you all about their accomplishments, days, or party tales. But as soon as you mutter even a word about your life, they start responding with "haha" or "cool." When that starts happening, I have learned to put the phone down because he doesn't actually care.

3. He only wants to text when he knows I'm alone.

Some guys are totally creepy in a way that they only text when I am alone. If they know I am out doing something or even just chilling in my living room, they ignore my existence. But when they know I am alone and vulnerable, they strike with the "send nudes" text.

4. He texts "Send nudes" regularly.

Girl, if you feel like sending a bomb ass tit picture to a guy who wants it, go for it. However, some guys ONLY care about building their library of nudes. As soon as that bull starts, I put down the phone.

5. He only texts when he isn't seeing, talking to, or sleeping with another girl.

Some guys use nice girls for pure entertainment. I have been that used nice girl. They don't really want to spend time with you or even sleep with you. They just enjoy the female attention. I am starting to refuse giving it to them.

6. He only texts at extremely odd hours and time periods.

He may not be cheating. But there's a strong chance he is. As soon as there's a bad feeling, I bail.

7. He's just so boring to text. Like, so boring.

Again, I like attention. Some guys text and even though they are painful to keep a conversation with, I keep texting and texting, even though it literally might just be a stream of "haha" or "nice haha" or even "ha :)."

8. He may just be a trash human being.

If a guy is rude, using me for sex, using me for attention, doesn't care about who I am as a person, has bailed on me many times, or whatever else, he doesn't deserve a second text or even a first text. He doesn't deserve any of my attention. And he shouldn't deserve yours either.

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