Remember when you were in Elementary and your teacher asked you who your hero was? Well I do. Anyone who knows me knows that my mom is my rock, my best friend, and my hero. Unfortunately, being a hero has its price. I began to notice people staring when I was around ten years old. We were eating at a restaurant and I noticed a couple of teenagers continuously looking at our table and whispering to each other. I couldn’t figure out what their problem was or why they were so intrigued with my family. What those teenagers didn’t know is that with every whisper they were demolishing my mom’s self-confidence and with every sideways glance at our table they were killing her strength. As I’ve gotten older I have noticed more stares and more whispers. Although I no longer question as to what they are staring at, I question why the hell they are staring at my mother. My mom has been there for me when no one else was, when I felt like my world was ending she was there to pick up the pieces. She taught me the true way to love someone unconditionally, with every ounce of your well-being. She taught me how to forgive others that did not deserve my forgiveness.
So let me tell you a little bit about my mom. March 23rd is a date that I will never forget. On this day my mom was in a house explosion, 90 percent of her body had severe burns on it. Every doctor that saw my mother told my grandparents that she would not make it through this. But after living in a hospital for nearly two years and going through hundreds of surgeries my mom defied the odds and got to go home. A little while after my mom was released from the hospital she met my father and they got married. Then my mom faced something that made her world stop turning once again. She was told that if she tried to have children, she would not make it through the delivery. This devastated her because becoming a mother is the one thing she wanted most in life. But my mom made the decision to take that chance and risk her own life to have me. And I am incredibly thankful she did. Saying my mom is my hero would be the biggest understatement I have ever made. My mother is a fighter and the strongest woman I have ever met. Words can only begin to describe how grateful I am to have a hero like her.RelationshipsOct 25, 2016
My Mom, My Best Friend, My Hero
A hero is someone who has given her life to something bigger than oneself.
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