Mixon, Stoops, Oklahoma: The Perfect Marriage for the Most Imperfect Reason | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Sports

Mixon, Stoops, Oklahoma: The Perfect Marriage for the Most Imperfect Reason

Joe Mixon, Bob Stoops, and the University of Oklahoma are in some boiling water right now because of the release of Mixon's 2014 assault video, and they each need one another in order to get out of the situation unscathed.

12
Mixon, Stoops, Oklahoma: The Perfect Marriage for the Most Imperfect Reason

The late Joe Paterno, one of the greatest college football coaches of all time, preached Success with Honor as the cornerstone to building a successful college football program. That is, honor and integrity come before winning football games, and all aspects of the program are handled the right way.

It is probably safe to say that Paterno wouldn't be happy with the University of Oklahoma and its football program as of a few weeks ago when a court ordered the release of a surveillance video showing Sooner running back Joe Mixon punching a female student, Amelia Molitor, in the face inside a late-night off-campus cafe in July 2014. At the time, the incident sparked much public outcry because Mixon, a former five-star recruit, received a slap on the wrist for his actions that left Molitor with multiple bone fractures in her face. Mixon took a deal and was ultimately charged with a misdemeanor offense, ordered to serve 100 hours of community service, and suspended one year by the university, which essentially just became his redshirt freshman year with the team.

Since then, Mixon has rushed for 1,936 yards and 15 touchdowns in his Sooner career, seemingly outrunning any lingering ill-effects of the incident along with his competition. But then the video was released, and boy, it was ugly. And it re-opened a huge can of worms that the University of Oklahoma had very poorly attempted to permanently seal away two and a half years ago.

The video of the incident can be found here.

The content of the tape is quite disturbing, but what's even more disturbing is the fact that just after the incident occurred, Oklahoma head football coach Bob Stoops watched that exact tape with the university's president behind closed doors, and their decided punishment didn't involve Mixon's dismissal from the team and/or university. I reckon that punishment would have been worse had Mixon not been a highly heralded five-star recruit coming out of high school.

Naturally the aforementioned parties faced a media firestorm in the days succeeding the video's release, and rightfully so. But with the opportunity to face the elephant in the room and tackle the issue once and for all, the group stared down the barrel and completely floundered, all but relinquishing any remaining chance they had of salvaging their public image in this troubling affair.

“Two-and-a-half-years later, dismissal is really the only thing that is possible” Stoops said as he addressed the tape at a press conference days after it was released. He now claims that the punishment wasn't enough, that there's "no recovering from these anymore." It's almost as if the deciding powers at Oklahoma thought it was okay for a man to hit a woman in 2014, and now they don't. The irreversible damage from this mistake has already been done, and thus these words must be taken with a grain of salt from the man who knowingly and willingly allowed, and continues to allow, a woman-beater to be a star on his football team.

Mixon also held a presser of his own, during which he apologized profusely for his actions and echoed that it is never okay for a man to put his hands on a woman, despite the fact that he said it "felt like a dude had just hit me" when questioned by police about the incident. Amelia Molitor must have one heck of a slap, because Mixon has the make and build of an NFL running back, though it's uncertain how that potential avenue will be affected for him.

Yikes. Just yikes, all around. How do you allow something like this to happen? I feel like if this happened at a school that didn't have such a rich, blue-blood football tradition as Oklahoma, there would be more clamor about Stoops' job. Oklahoma certainly isn't getting a dinner invitation from any Women's Advocates any time soon, and why would they? I'm even convinced they believe they did nothing in the wrong in their handling of all this, that these public apologies are simply the school's way of saying "We're sorry we got caught being terrible people."

The university is hanging Amelia Molitor out to dry in all this. They don't care about her broken face or what her life may be like now that she's received so much publicity. No, they picked winning football games over her. Moreover, they picked winning football games over morality, and that would be grounds for dismissal at many other schools.

Bob Stoops is lucky he's at Oklahoma. Joe Mixon is lucky he's at Oklahoma. Oklahoma is lucky that they can get away with being Oklahoma -- that is, enabling success with dishonor -- or they could very easily find themselves without their prized head coach and once sure NFL-bound star running back. Won't stop me from thinking they're running a joke of a program down there in Norman.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Adulting

6 Unrealistic Expectations Society Has For Young Adults

Don't let the thesaurus-inspired vocabularies in our résumés fool you. We're actually just big kids.

2639
boy in adult clothes

Well over four feet tall and 100 pounds in weight, many of us "young adults" of the world still consider ourselves children. Big, working, college-attending, beer-drinking children. We may live on our own, know how to cook noodles, and occasionally use a planner, but don't be fooled; the youthful tendencies that reside within us still make their way into our daily lives. From choosing to stay up until 3:00 a.m. playing video games on a school night to going out in 30 degree weather without a coat, we still make decisions that our parents and grandparents would shake their heads at in disappointment. So why are we expected to know exactly how to be a wise, professional, sensible adult? It's not that we're irresponsible (for the most part, anyway). It's that we are young, inexperienced, and still have the sought-after, enthusiastic mentality that we can do and be whatever we want, which has not yet been tarnished by the reality of the world. These are just a few of the unrealistic expectations that society has for young adults.

Keep Reading...Show less
pizza
Fandango

There are a lot of foods in this world, but there is only one dish that stands above the rest: Pizza. If you're close to me or at least know who I am, then you know that I'm totally obsessed with pizza. It's one of my favorite things to eat and I will NEVER turn down a slice, even if it doesn't have my favorite toppings. There isn't a day that goes by where I'm not thinking about pizza. I even sleep with a pizza pillow every night! There are many reasons why pizza stands above all other foods, and here are just a couple reasons why.

Keep Reading...Show less
sex and the city
Warner Bros. Television

1. You don't have to feel guilty about flirting with customers for tips (or just for shits and giggles).

2. You can be obnoxiously flirtatious with anyone you want. You are free to be that girl that flirts with everybody and makes 'em all smile (it's especially fun when the guy is as cute as Collin Jost). No shame.

3. Making random men nervous with your superior beauty and intense eye contact just for the hell of it is really amusing and empowering.

4. No one gives two poops if ya legs are hairy (your man shouldn't either but *Kermit the Frog meme* That's none of my business)

5. The toilet seat will remain down.

6. There's more money to spend on yourself.

7. There's always this secret butterfly in your tummy that marvels at the possibility that when you go out this weekend you're gonna meet someone super handsome/wonderful/prince-like and have this moment of dazzling dalliance.

8. Nothing is that serious...you can take it all with a grain of salt...you don't owe anybody anything.

9. You can dance with anyone and everyone...or no one (Hello frat boi w/ glasses, I see you).

10. You don't have to fluff anyone's ego but your own.

11. Free drinks and dinners from single guys (It's not taking advantage if they're offering; a girl's gotta eat).

12. You have more time to learn how to love and improve yourself rather than constantly pouring your energy into another person.

13. You don't have to sacrifice your cheesy Jen Aniston rom-coms and Gilmore Girls for his Fast and Furious/other dumb action movie featuring blonde that is only in the movie to supply a relationship to the male lead and to make him look more masculine/empowered in juxtaposition (In other words, you don't have to deal with a guy being a crabby Patty while you watch your cute movies).

14. You can daydream about what your future husband may be doing right now (and not get stressed/guilty out because you're not picturing your current boyfriend that's crazy about you as your future husband).

15. There is more time to be spent with your girlfriends.

Entertainment

How Girls Night Out Turns Into Girls Night In

To go out or not to go out this Friday night...

607
Girls Night In
Milk + Blush

We've all been there - you've been saying since Tuesday after French that this weekend is the weekend. You're finally going to break out those new heels and actually put on eyeliner on and make this Friday night be one for the memory books! That is, of course, until Girls Night Out turned into...Girls Night In.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

What Is Your Zodiac GIF?

Characteristics of the astrological signs, explained through GIFS.

939
zodiac
Wordpress

Whether you believe astrology is a legitimate "science" or not, we have all found ourselves looking at our horoscopes from time to time. The 12 astrological signs all fall under one of four elements: air, water, earth, or fire. Air signs are rational, social, and love to communicate with others. Water signs are are emotional, intuitive, and mysterious. Fire signs tend to be passionate, creative, and adventurous. Earth signs are conservative, realistic, and loyal.

Each sign is determined by the relative positions of celestial bodies to ourselves at our moment of birth, which is said to influence our personalities. Find your zodiac GIF below, based on the traits and characteristics provided by each sign.

***Disclaimer: GIFS are meant to be lighthearted and are based on descriptions of signs from http://www.astrology-zodiac-signs.com/.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments