My name is Matheus Oliveira, I am 20 years old and Today I have pretty normal life, but there was a time where that would have been seemingly impossible. To further understand my story, we need to go back to 1987 when my father immigrated from Brazil to America. My mother did the same in 1991. When my mom immigrated to America she ended up going to the same church my father went to. They met each other and soon started dating. They got married in 1993 and five years later is where my story began. My mother had gotten pregnant with me and both my parents were overjoyed by this news, but neither of them were aware of the tough news that would soon come to follow. While my mother went to the doctors to get all the tests and examinations that any other pregnant women would get, the doctors found something and delivered the upsetting news to my parents. The doctors told my parents that I would be born with L4 Spina Bifida. Spina Bifida is a birth defect in which a developing baby's spinal cord fails to develop properly. This condition is so rare that it only affects fewer than 200,000 newborns a year in the U.S. In other words what this meant for me was that I was going to be a paraplegic and there was nothing in the world of medicine that could be done to help me. When the doctor explained this to my parents he said that "this child will not be able to walk, poop by himself and will also be dependent on the both of you throughout his everyday life. He won't even be able to kick during birth and with that in mind, if you would like, this hospital will fully support you in your decision should you choose to abort this child." Obviously, that didn't happen because if it did then I wouldn't be alive to write this article. Instead of aborting me, my parents decided to put their faith in God and go through with the pregnancy and birth no matter what happened. When the day of my birth had finally arrived, something impossible happened that no one in that delivery room would ever forget. I was supposed to be a paraplegic and my legs were supposed to be useless limbs attached to my body but when my mother gave birth to me something insane happened. To the surprise of every one in that room I came out of the womb kicking. this completely stunned the doctors and nurses as, again, I was supposed to be paraplegic. My family had such a good support system in the church throughout my mother's pregnancy with me. They had friends who would pray with them for hours a day everyday for weeks prior to my birth and so, on the day of my birth God had answered their prayers but he wasn't done yet, for he had bigger miracles to perform in my life. Shortly after my birth the doctor came to talk to my parents and he told them that "I don't know how this happened but don't get used to it because he is going to have surgery in a couple hours". Despite this warning, I was still showing signs of improvement even after my back surgery. My dad went to visit me in the newborn wing of ICU when the doctor came in to give me my medicine. The doctor had known about my parent's Christian faith and had often witnessed them and their friends together praying for me prior to my birth. When he saw my dad looking over me in ICU the doctor looked at him and said "whatever you're doing, keep doing because its clearly working". After I was released from the hospital my parents never saw this doctor again but my dad thinks that after witnessing Gods power through the events of my birth that he may have converted. The story doesn't end there though. When I was a baby I had many surgeries, one of which was to implant a Shunt into my body 7 days after my birth. In medicine, a shunt is a hole or a small passage which moves, or allows movement of, fluid from one part of the body to another. The term may describe either congenital or acquired shunts; and acquired shunts may be either biological or mechanical. In more simple terms, it's at tube that is surgically inserted into the body to filter the fluids from the brain to other parts of the body .At 1 year of age I was getting prepped for surgery because my original shunt was clogged and so they needed to replace it. At 2 years old I had my second back surgery which ended up being my 8th and final surgery. Fast forward 14 years and at age 16 I went back to the hospital for what was supposed to be a routine MRI that I would have every 2 or so years but things were different this time. When I had gotten my results back from the doctor they had told me that my spine was curved and if it had gotten worse I would need another surgery. They told me to come back in 6 months to have another MRI to be sure of whether or not I needed surgery. I came back after 6 months and they told that my spine only curved because of how much I was growing but because I didn't have that many years left to grow they said I didn't need surgery, but things were not over yet. The doctor had a second piece of news to tell me. He told me that even though my spinal curve was no longer an issue, he did find another problem. That problem was the fact that my shunt was disconnected and had stopped working. He told me to wait a little bit before coming back for another MRI and in the meantime look out for specific symptoms that are commonly associated with this issue. After waiting another 6 months for another MRI appointment while also not exhibiting any of the symptoms the doctor warned me about, I went back and got another MRI. When we got the results back from that MRI and the doctor told me that he had good news and bad news. The good news is that the disconnected shunt was no longer a problem and that he thought that I was at the stage in my life where I no longer needed it. The bad news is that he found a new problem. He told me that there were liquid sockets formed in my lower back. After waiting another 3 months for another MRI, I was told that it was no longer an issue. After a year and a half, I was finally free from medical scares. Since then I have been living a normal life. I go to church and bible study, I play the piano and I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu of all things. For anyone reading this I hope that if you take anything away from this story it's this. Through God all things are possible, all you need is faith. If you are going through something that you think is impossible to fix then bring it to God and pray about it because I promise you, even when things seem bleak and dark, God will always be there for you no matter what. When medicine said that I would be paralyzed from the waist down, God said "No, I have bigger plans for your life." When medicine said that I would be completely dependent on others for the simplest things, God said "No, I have bigger plans for your life." When medicine said that I would never be able to have a normal life, God said "No, I have bigger plans for your life." When I look back at my story, I don't think about what could've happened to me. I thank God for what did happen to me. For anyone reading this I hope you have a great day and God bless you.
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The 12 Stages Of Course Registration, As Told By "Friends"
No one best represents the struggle like our favorite 90s squad.
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As college students, we are all familiar with the horror show that is course registration week. Whether you are an incoming freshman or selecting classes for your last semester, I am certain that you can relate to how traumatic this can be.
1. When course schedules are released and you have a conflict between two required classes.
Bonus points if it is more than two.
2. When there is only one section of a popular course.
Seriously though, why would you squeeze all 2000 people who need this course into two sections?
3. Receiving the 18,000 emails reminding you to register ASAP.
We get it - there is no reason I need the same email in my personal, university, and computer science emails. I have already checked my enrollment date, and I'm all set, chill.
4. When you need to see an advisor, but they are too busy/unresponsive.
Especially when the advisors have "walk-in hours" instead of appointments, and you get stuck behind the person who insists on carrying 24 credits next semester.
5. Trying not to dress like a bum for your appointments with your advisors/department heads.
I basically live in pajamas, sweatpants, and leggings. Wearing real clothes is completely foreign at this point.
6. When you have a perfectly planned out schedule, and one class ruins it.
Bye-bye Fridays off!
7. Carefully moving things around to accommodate a different class/section.
Pivot!
8. Waking up at 6:00 a.m. for your enrollment time.
It should be common knowledge that computer science majors are nocturnal creatures that should not be bothered prior to 11:00 a.m.
9. Concocting a new schedule at your enrollment time after your original plan gets changed.
After seeing that three of the classes you planned to take were filled by "reserved seats for incoming students," it is a race against the clock to get a new schedule together that has no time conflicts, fulfills at least some major requirements, and has an appropriate amount of credits.
10. Getting into a class and filling the last available seat.
One of the few perks of having college credit from high school is the slightly earlier registration time.
11. When all of your classes finally go through.
Even though it is not what you originally planned, this hellish week is finally over.
12. Realizing that you forgot a class that was a pre-requisite for everything else.
Almost...
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Student Life
12 Things I Learned my Freshmen Year of College
When your capability of "adulting" is put to the test
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Whether you're commuting or dorming, your first year of college is a huge adjustment. The transition from living with parents to being on my own was an experience I couldn't have even imagined- both a good and a bad thing. Here's a personal archive of a few of the things I learned after going away for the first time.
1. The Freshmen 15? It's real.
WARNING: The buffet style campus dining spots are a TRAP. If you're eating and out drinking on the weekends, it is EXTREMELY LIKELY that you're going to gain a little bit of weight. Gaining weight isn't really a bad thing, but staying healthy is definitely important. Take a walk or a run to even out that junk food intake, but feel free to sneak that late night five-cheese panini at 1AM.
2. Make friends with some of your floormates.
Your first year of college is arguably the most memorable time of your college life. You live with your floormates for two semesters, and you see them in the hall all the time. Make it a point to say "what's up", it'll definitely make your year more fun.
3. College is hard. Don't sell yourself short.
Higher education. It's not high school, your professors are a little less prominent than your HS teachers. This being said, you are responsible for your own eucation. It's a little hard having all this freedom and responsibility for (probably) the first time in your life, but it's important to realize that it's a little harder because you're sort of on your own.
4. You don't HAVE to have sex to "get it over with".
This is IMPORTANT. Deciding to have sex when you get to college? Cool. Deciding you want to wait? Awesome. Having sex because you just want to get it over with? Hm, think about that. Your decision is your decision, but if you're iffy about entering the "college hook-up culture", PLEASE really think about how important it is for you to have sex.
5. Be careful who you hook up with and who you open up to.
As I said earlier: beware of the infamous "college hook-up culture". IMO, it's a chance for college guys or gals to lead the other on (the majority of the time). It's not possible to control your feelings, but it's possible to cut a hook-up off/talk about how you feel. Better for you in the long run, trust me.
6. Work around scheduling a class before 12PM.
You might have the idea that, "Oh, I got up at 8AM in high school. I can do it again." No. No, you can't. I have very little explanation for this. You'll enjoy the extra sleep. If you don't believe me, schedule a morning class, and see how you feel.
7. Dress how you want to dress.
You wanna dress up? Slap on some make up, put on some heels, and head to your lecture. You were up late last night? Roll out of bed in what you fell asleep in last night. The good thing about college? You realize that no one is really focused on you, so it's a good time to just "do you" and rock it.
8. The drinking every chance you get? Not healthy. Stop that.
9. When you DO go out, be safe.
Check your drink, make sure you're pacing yourself, don't wander home by yourself, etc. The essentials.
10. Spend your money frugally.
Living the ramen/ easy-mac life is a real thing. There's a reason why it's a college student's go-to: it's easy to make, and it's cheap as heck. It's important to practice money saving tips- even though it seems almost impossible.
11. Those events your RA hosts? Go to them. Some of them are awesome, some offer free food.
As a poor college student, the word free resonates in all of our ears. RA events are not only a gateway to free food, but are also a way to meet more people on your floor/ in your building.
12. It's not all about school- enjoy yourself.
College is a new time in your life where you're working towards your future, but it's also a time where you meet people and have experiences like no other. Let yourself breathe sometimes, and just enjoy this experience.
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Raising the minimum wage to a livable wage would not only benefit workers and their families, it would also have positive impacts on the economy and society. Studies have shown that by increasing the minimum wage, poverty and inequality can be reduced by enabling workers to meet their basic needs and reducing income disparities.
I come from a low-income family. A family, like many others in the United States, which has lived paycheck to paycheck. My family and other families in my community have been trying to make ends meet by living on the minimum wage. We are proof that it doesn't work.
What about combined income from two minimum-wage workers? Wouldn't that put them above the poverty line? In a nuclear family with two working parents and two children, their combined yearly wage would be about $30,160. That's only $7,846 above the poverty line. Now, let's take into account rent, food, gas, utilities, car insurance, health insurance, school supplies, clothes, and tuition. Try and see how $30,160 would cover all those expenses in a year – it doesn't. The minimum wage is not a living wage.
The minimum wage is not a living wage.
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Here are some myths that I would like to present and debunk:
Raising the minimum wage will kill jobs. This is false. In a March 2011 report, the Center for Economic and Policy Research concluded that raising the minimum wage would not only help workers but actually have the possibility of increasing job openings. Better pay leads people to spend more money, and the cycle repeats.
"Nobody living in one of the most influential nations in the world should be worried about making ends meet."
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On June 2, 2014 , Seattle changed the city's minimum wage to $15 dollars. Following that procedure, unemployment decreased 17.46 percent – falling from a previous 6.3 percent to 5.2 percent.
Raising the minimum wage will hurt small business. Not only has a higher minimum wage worked in cities across the United States, but a 2006 study by the Center for American Progress and Policy Matters compared small business performances and found that the small businesses who paid the higher wages were more profitable.
Mostly teenagers work minimum-wage jobs. Again, this is false. Half of minimum-wage workers are 25 years old or older. Most minimum-wage workers support their family on this income – and 28 percent of these individuals have children.
Raising the minimum wadge
The minimum wage is not sufficient to uphold and support an individual, especially individuals with families. I've often heard: "It isn't fair that someone working in a fast food restaurant will get paid the same as a college professional!" If we raise the minimum wage to, let’s say, $11 an hour, it would still be a lower amount than that of a college professional. Even so, someone not having a college degree doesn't make their worth any less valuable. Nobody deserves to live in poverty. Nobody living in one of the most influential nations in the world should be worried about making ends meet. We are a nation of equality and opportunity – it's time to let some of that opportunity flow.
What is the current minimum wage at the federal level?
Federal minimum wage is currently $7.25 per hour. Many states also have minimum wage laws, and the employee is entitled to the higher of the two minimum wages. (U.S. Dept. of Labor)
What are the benefits of raising the minimum wage?
A higher minimum wage means less workers living below the poverty line, more workers being able to make ends meet and potentially spend beyond that, and workers would be more productive upon the increase.
What are the states that have set a $15/hour minimum wage?
California is at $15.50 per hour, Washington is at $15.74, and Massachusetts is at $15. These are the only states to have a $15 minimum wage as of Jan. 1, 2023. (The Economic Policy Institute Tracker)
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Allena Tapia
As an English Major in college, I have a lot of writing and especially creative writing pieces that I work on throughout the semester and sometimes, I'll find it hard to get the motivation to type a few pages and the thought process that goes behind it. These are eleven thoughts that I have as a writer while writing my stories.
1. Man! This character would be cool! I'm writing fast now!
2. Man, so many plot points to hit, so many things to do...oh! I should look up references pictures!
3. I guess I could take a break and get some other homework done...
4. Ha, just kidding, back to the writing grind!
5. Well, I don't want cheesy romance, it can't be uncomfortable like 50 Shades of Grey, painful like Twilight but faint and fake like Katniss & Peeta...hmmm.
6. God, Katniss should've been with Gale, the chemistry was there.
7. Back to typing
8. I've gotten three lines written out, I need a pee break
9. ...And maybe a snack
10. Now I'm rereading these lines and they're shit...
11. Guess I'm start again tomorrow.
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13 Times April Ludgate Perfectly Explained College
Because who understands your bitterness better than April?
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Every college student knows and understands the struggle of forcing themselves to continue to care about school. Between the piles of homework, the hours of studying and the painfully long lectures, the desire to dropout is something that is constantly weighing on each and every one of us, but the glimmer of hope at the end of the tunnel helps to keep us motivated. While we are somehow managing to stay enrolled and (semi) alert, that does not mean that our inner-demons aren't telling us otherwise, and who is better to explain inner-demons than the beloved April Ludgate herself? Because of her dark-spirit and lack of filter, April has successfully been able to describe the emotional roller-coaster that is college on at least 13 different occasions and here they are.
1. When you have to provide an "interesting fact" for your first day ice-breaker.
Let's cut the small talk and skip ahead to the part where you let us leave.
2. When your professor is babbling on and on in his lecture.
All of your talking broke my brain. I hope you're proud.
3. When you edit your friend's paper and they get an A.
Not all heroes wear capes; some wear sweats and the same shirt they slept in the night before.
4. When it's 2 AM and you remember you have a test tomorrow.
Where's the part where I get to sleep?
5. When you finish taking the test and you're pretty sure you failed...
It's probably best to forget that this day ever existed and repeat this coping method once you get your grade back.
6. ...but then you get the test back and somehow passed.
No need to drown your sorrows after all.
7. When you've been up for 12 hours straight writing a paper.
Is it too late to drop out and work your way up in the fast food industry?
8. And then you manage to stay awake in class the next day.
Normal humans should not be able to survive on this minimal amount of sleep.
9. When you have to butter up your professor for an extra credit opportunity.
If I have to pretend that one more of your corny jokes is funny, I just might barf.
10. When you're assigned a group project.
I hardly want to be in the same room with most of these people, let alone depend on them to help me pass this class.
11. And your group-mates are trying to chat about life instead of the assignment.
The only reason I'm talking to you is because I have to. I had no say in the matter.
12. When it's your last class of the day and you're about to go home.
Oh, sweet freedom, how I have missed your warm embrace!
13. But then you remember rent is due tonight and the anger comes back.
I'm way too broke for this life.
While the struggle is so intense that it tends to bring out the dark side in all of us, just remember that the pain is temporary. Also, remember that you probably won't see most of these people again after you graduate, so that's always nice.
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