Meredith Grey. When we hear the name there are three thoughts that come to our minds… Why didn't I go to medical school so I could find my “person” and meet my “McDreamy.” Why does she always have such perfect hair especially after she’s worked 48 hours in a damn hospital? And, why can’t I be as badass as her and have a man build a house for me? Yes, I am being nostalgic and referencing back to the good old days before Shonda Rhimes decided to torture us with these series of unfortunate events. Instead, let's go back down memory lane where the ever so wise Meredith leads us to believe after every dark cloud we can still make our own sunshine. (Cue the Jesus Jackson song)

As an avid lover and binge watcher of the show, Meredith has grown to be some what of my own "person" per say not to get all cliche and sappy. But, when the going gets tough, Meredith grey and her glossed lips of wisdom are definitely an inspirational source of knowledge that has helped me learn to grow and experience change for the better. This said, let's reflect on some of those awesome moments from your girl, "Mer."

1. You'll never know if you don't try--Knowing is better than wondering.

2. When you're overwhelmed just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

3. If you think you have a future with them. Be true to yourself, and let that person know.

4. Whether it's a relationship or a personal challenge. Always be prepared to expect the unexpected.

5. Life can be shitty. Cry it out. No one is judging you.

6. Things are not better in moderation. Have that extra chocolate chip cookie or glass of wine.

7. Don't be too guarded with yourself, or the opportunities of new relationships and friendships. Cross that bridge!

8. Don't take life so seriously. Embrace your inner child.

9. Don't ever get too comfortable in relationships or living. Remember, change can be good.

I think it's safe to say, no matter how hard life can get or what we go through. Meredith as a character can help you shape a truly amazing and unique outlook on your own life. I can personally relate to this, as some of the lessons, and sayings in the show have helped me move on and learn my worth as my own "person" dealing with personal experiences, such as, heartbreak, loss of friendships, but, also the opportunity to take on new beginnings.

As Meredith says, Life can be messy--you just need to embrace the change and have faith that you can survive it. I've grown up with these abundant words of wisdom Shonda Rhimes has beautifully voiced into one of my favorite television characters. That's why, this show has become much more than just a great excuse to pour myself a glass of wine and binge watch on the weekends. It's a source of teachings that have helped mold me into the young lady I am today... and for that, I will be eternally grateful.